Why is it so hard..  

CuriousOHVirgin 40F
134 posts
8/23/2005 7:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why is it so hard..

What is it about people that they cannot take no for an answer?

Why do people feel its acceptable to send a message FOR THE 1ST TIME ever and think u will say sure come on over Mr./Ms. Strangelove..I would love to do u right away??

Nah..not gonna happen...not with me..

Is it so hard to really talk to a peron before u fuck them? Is this what society has come to??

I am not asking for a whirlwind romance..I am asking to get to know u before I decide if I can have sex with u! I believe that is reasonable..

If u cant have a conversation with me..even if its over a few weeks before i feel comfortable with u..then dont waste my time or your own..move on.

Because if u get to know me and we click through conversation...it can be sooo good between us. So what we arent 'dating' or in a 'relationship' per say...but if u want me to say come on over..u have to start with Hi my name is >>>>

Some guy I talked to yesterday wouldnt even give me his name but asked if I wanted to hook up?? Any one think that is fishy..maybe he has something to hide?? Like perhaps a psychotic personality..lol!!!

A little goes a long way..share with me and I will do the same

freshmeet2 52M

8/24/2005 5:20 am

Stick to what makes you feel comfortable. You already know there are idiots out there, you are in control of the situation at this point. Safety comes first keep control until you feel the time is right to let go. I'm sure hooking up with you is well worth any time invested. I see no reason to rush into the hook up, the journey is as important as the destination. Take care, Fresh

shogun923 49M

8/24/2005 2:50 pm

I don't know what it is about some people Danni. A couple of the women I have talked to on here where very shallow, or playing games...which is why we never hooked up. I think a lot of the time men are worse. Most men simply don't care, they just want the wham bam thank you ma'am, and move on to another conquest. And there are a lot of people that are simply not too tightly wrapped. I do think it's fishy he wouldn't at least give you his name and it was smart to not meet him. I think it's important to talk with someone and get to know them at least a little first, partly because I won't fuck a total stranger, and partly for safety sake, but for me it's about finding that person you can also be great friends with as well. Maybe as a man that puts me in the minority, but so be it. The bottom line is...don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, or that puts you in a position where you have no control.

3 posts
8/28/2005 6:08 pm

Not sure why some people feel the need to jump your bones without at least talking for a bit. Hi, hello, lets fuck just doesn't get it. I prefer to know a little about the person I want to be intimate with before hand. maybe its how I was raised, maybe I think its just good sense and common courtesy...

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