Whats the worse that could happen?  

CuriousOHVirgin 40F
134 posts
9/1/2005 4:00 pm

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Whats the worse that could happen?


Say u meet someone..they are nice enough but after 1 night of passion you totally avoid them. Was the sex bad? Not at all. Was the conversation good? Definetly. Were u both looking for the same thing? I think so.

So what went wrong?

I think it was me. I think I decided to keep the attachment down and keep that person from acting as if there was something more I just never spoke to them again. I act that way with women..not so much men. Men I am like..sure we can meet again and I follow through. Women I tend to do a 1 time deal and back off after that. I have had 2 long term relationships with women that ended badly..both tended to be quite possessive. Maybe that is what I am leary of. I am afraid they will get emotional about it.

Plus thats another thing...is sex emotional? Can a person really detach themselves from the person and the sex. I can and do. I have not yet felt that after sex with a person 'I will spend the rest of my life with u!'

Does that make me a cold unfeeling person? I would like to think not. I do think..wow I hope we r friends for a long time.

Thats why I never just jump into the sexual thing. I tend to want to get to know a person before we make it there. That way I know if we r seeing things eye to eye.

Been awhile since I posted anything but poems..thought I would let u know what is in this brain of mine today

Take care all

Danni~

patron_agave22 33M
1 post
9/1/2005 5:54 pm

Danni,
I want to meet you. I go to OU in athens. Drop me a line.
Charlie


freshmeet2 52M

9/1/2005 6:30 pm

Danni, Doesn't meeting them ahead of time make it more emotional, rather than just physical. You seem to be connecting on more than just an animalistic level doing it that way. Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex more if there is at least some emotional involvement, not always thinking they're the one mind you. Raw physical sex is good , I just think some emotion makes it feel more rounded. 1 is more of a release while the other is more of a deeper connection. I think all of us are looking for the connection but will enjoy the release. Maybe you are just too good and that's whats causing you to get possessive females. They're ready to go to the next level while you are just having a good time. That's what's going on in my mind tonight. Enjoy yourself, Fresh


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