Cyber..what do people really get out of it?  

CuriousOHVirgin 40F
134 posts
8/28/2005 9:19 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Cyber..what do people really get out of it?

I am not sure if anyone has read my profile but I am not into cyber sex. I just dont see how that can be enjoyable. U do alot of typing but u r supposed to be playing at the same time..or maybe I am looking at it the wrong way.

I know of course some people that read this are gonna think 'Oh well u havent cybered with me' or 'u just been cybering with the wrong people'..but nah..i have done it a few times..male and female and I just dont get it why its such a craze. But i also dont get the pissing and crapping on one another thing either. But to each his own I guess.

i mean do the phrases 'oh yes' 'mmmmmm' 'oh u taste so good baby' 'want me to ride u baby?' really have as much impact in written form as they do verbally or in real life?

I cant see that they do. Not for me anyway!
I like to hear the erratic breathing, listen to the words as u gasp them, let your moans wash over me as u imagine me licking, kissing, sucking or riding you. The words mean nothing to me unless i hear the voice too.

Can I get turned on by someone typing to me 'If u were here right now i would fuck u so hard. U have no idea what I could do to u. I want u to suck my cock. And bend over and let me pound you from behind'...HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!

But then I want to hear how excited u r..i want to feel how excited u are..and I want to taste the promised mind blowing passion that you are offering.

Cyber doesnt do that for me..I would do phone over cyber anyday.

Thanx for listening to my ramble..Have a pleasant day all!


rm_enigma5072 39M
5 posts
9/2/2005 7:52 pm

Well, for most, cyber is just masturbation with someone else that can help stimulate their imagination.
Some people just enjoy being told what to do or telling someone else what to do. But again it boils down to the person's imagination.
Phone sex is much more real in the fact that you can hear the excitment in your partner's voice. But phone sex is a lot harder to come by, unless a guy is willing to pay for it. (As for most things related to sex, it's harder for guys to come by, as opposed to women who just have to tell people that they are ready for it.)

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