I'm puzzled  

CuriousKitty675 41F
285 posts
7/8/2005 3:56 am

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I'm puzzled


I keep hearing from men who say they can never find a woman who will give oral sex or who don't do it well. I hear from women who say they don't like doing it.

This puzzles me. What woman doesn't like oral sex done on her? Why would they want to deny thier partner the same?

I guess I've never understood this, probably never will. I had a wonderful initiation into the world of sex. My partenr made love to me. He let me explore and prompted me to let myself explore him, knowing instinctively my curious nature. It was beautiful.

Personally I love to please the man I'm with oraly. I love the feel, the sounds of him, the look on his face, the power you feel knowing that his urgent desires are quite literally in your hands (and mouth!). You can speed it up, slow it down. Give a suprising lick or urgent suction.

So does anyone have any input as to why this strange phenomena happens with women? Why they are so adverse to oral sex?

pusea411 57F

7/8/2005 5:28 am

as for me i love sucking cock it get's me off to no end. i have met many chicks that hate giving head i tell them you don't know what your're missing out on. putting that limp cock in your mouth and feel it growing from your sucking, teasing, licking and making eye contact. most of them say that's nasty, then i ask them do you douche most say no, so that answer's my question on that nasty pussy nasty bitch and those are the one's that don't get there pussy ate out. SUCK COCK EVERYDAY IT'S BETTER THAN AN APPLE


mandn1 48M/F

7/8/2005 6:58 am

HEY MY PARTNER LIKES TO GIVE A BIT OF ORAL BUT I GUESS AS WITH A LOT OF WOMEN YOU GET SCARED OF GOING TOO FAR AND ENDING UP WITH A GOBFUL OF SOMETHING YOU HATE EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE PROBABLY NEVER TRIED IT BEFORE.
SHE LOVES ORAL ON HER AND CAN NEVER GET ENOUGH OF IT WHEN SHE IS IN THE MOOD.I LICK TO THE POINT OF CLIMAX AND THEN SHE IS GAGGING FOR MY MEAT TO ENTER HER.

SO I DULY OBLIGE.

BEST BLOWY I HAVE EVER HAD LASTED FOR FOUR HOURS ALMOST NON STOP.
ANYONE GONE ANY BETTER.


rm_JRoker1200 39M

7/8/2005 7:31 am

What I've heard most often from women that don't like to give oral is that they are concerned about the way their mouth looks as they pleasure a guy. It's a little frustrating but at the same time if they are really into you, they are willing to learn how to do it well and to like it. I initiate plenty of eye contact when I go down on a woman and I encourage them to do the same to me. It seems to keep their mind off of the visual of what they think they look like as they take me in. Also, one thing I should mention. A lot of those same women are very uncomfortable about receiving oral sex too. That has been explained to me too but if it made any sense at all I would share it with you. Anyone else notice this?


rm_fntmnv 36M

7/8/2005 7:31 am

I actually thought it was the othre way around, with men complaining about giving, even when their partners have been more than willing to pleasure them.
I agree with you though, I know the pleasures I have recieved and have always wanted my partner to experince the same joy. I have never been able to get off do to oral sex, but I do enjoy it, and love to give it.


rm_search4six 58
15 posts
7/8/2005 7:37 am

I agree with Kat. Women don't always seem to satisfy male partners orally. Myself I love to suck on a clit and lick a nice pussy and body all day and night long. And as for receiving, all I can say is what cums around goes around.


CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
7/11/2005 7:17 am

Thank you so much to everyone for thier input. Sometimes my mind just latches onto a topic that puzzles me and nags at me till I get it figured out. I can be very tenacious! LOL.

Pusea411, LOL! You are so right! They DON'T know what thier missing! You hit the nail on the head girl!

Mandn1, Ask your partner this: "How can you know you're gonna hate it if you never tried it?" Also you can tell them that it tastes different everytime. Depends on what you've been eating and drinking. Sounds strange but it's true. I heard that Strawberries and Kiwis were supposed to make cum taste better although I've never been able to experiment with that theory personally. If do it enough you get to were you can feel when it's about to busrst. The sudden swell, the tightening of the balls, ect... If your partner is still hesitant you could always vocalize when it's time and give her warning and maybe that will ease her fears.

JRoker, You have a valid point. I'd never really thought about that. Although, I've always thought one of my best assets or most attractive feature was my lips. I guess to me I never thought of it as looking funny but more of it looking erotic. Example: Imagine Angelina Joilie eating a bananna. Who wouldn't think that was hot?

Fntmny, Darling....if you've never gotten off from someone giving you oral sex then you haven't had the right person doing it. As for it being the other way around I guess I've just always been lucky in the partners I've found. They were always up for it. You need to find the right gal who's willing to keep at it and not just with her mouth but with her hands and tounge and....well it's an involved kinda thing.

Search4six, amen! When you're with another person intimately there is no room for selfishness. If you let yourself get wrapped up in the moment of intimacy then all inhibitions fall away.


cdque99 55M
1 post
8/19/2005 6:21 pm

My girl gives head and gets into it so much she almost cums. Unfortunately for me she will stop so I can put my dick in her, she like to cum with a dick in her. I am not complaining. I can cum either way.


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