Lazy Saturday  

CruelKitty 45F
272 posts
7/2/2005 2:59 pm

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Lazy Saturday


Apparently all my online friends are out having 4th of July fun. I probably should have gone to the lake, but a couple of my friends from work mentioned going to the Skyy Bar tonight so hopefully SOMETHING will happen. I don't think they allow jeans there though, so I might have to go shopping first. And color my hair. I lost alot of hair from losing weight and it's starting to grow back, with little short hairs around my forehead. It almost looks like a mullett! The worst part is the grey hairs growing in. Ugghh..genetics are a bitch. My dad started going grey when he was 17. He now has a full head of WHITE hair and he's only 62. At least I won't have to contend with male pattern baldness. I feel so sorry for those women who do. Another trait I inherited from my dad is my weight problem. I have officially lost 80 lbs now. I feel great. I just don't like the soft spots that are left over. And my boobs are shrinking! I now wear a size 34 b bra.

So it's been a while since I've posted. My original intent was tell about people I've met on AdultFriendFinder, but so far there are only 2. At first there were tons of them, but interest has dwindled and I don't get many requests anymore. So about them...I guess I can dish. I just hope I don't hurt any feelings by what I would have to say.

The first guy...God he was hot. I think I mentioned before that his picture didn't do him justice. He's taken it down now. I asked him why and he didn't reply. He did send me an instant message one day though and I didn't realize it was him until he said so. I think he just needed some affirmation or something. He asked if his penis was big enough for me. My first thought was to ask if my pussy was too big for him?? I don't understand why guys worry about that so much. I've never been with anyone who was too small, but I have been with someone who was too big. Trust me, I'd take small over big any day. Who knows, I might even be willing to try anal with a smaller guy. To be honest, intercourse doesn't do much for me anyway, so it's more important that he just knows what he's doing and is willing to spend some time doing it. So he also asked if I came. I couldn't lie. I wish I had. It's just not that easy for me. So to end the conversation, he said he was pissed that I didn't get off (hey, it happens..doesn't mean I didn't have fun anyway) and mentioned that he'd like to try again. Well, I haven't heard from him since.

The other guy...well, his cock was a little bigger, but his body was pretty petite. I didn't expect that. His pic made him look like he was 6 ft +..I never even thought to ask. Not that I have anything against short men (except they usually have an attitude problem). This guy...he was so-so. I did most of the work...all 3 times that night. Not much else to say.

I've met 2 other men since my last post..not from AdultFriendFinder. One is a guy I've chatted with online for a while. I knew he was crazy. Our meeting confirmed it. I'm not all that into him, but I was horny, so we made out. In my car. I still can't believe I let him talk me into doing that. There's alot more to the story than I care to get into, but in short--I did get off. He was pretty good at oral. I felt bad about my reluctance to return the favor. I tried..but just wasn't into it. The whole situation was nerve racking and uncomfortable...so he got the short end of the stick.

Lastly...there was the date. We met and had drinks after work. I thought he was really cool. He was friendly enough...but when I tried to chat with him later, nothing.

So that's what's going on with me...nadda. Hopefully I'll have a story to tell soon.

ess25 45M
12 posts
7/2/2005 4:11 pm

ce pour toi ma cher


PillsburyCodeBoy 60M

7/2/2005 5:45 pm

Welcome back. I've missed you.

It sounds as if you've done pretty well at meeting people. In fact, it sounds as if you're doing better than a lot of people here ever manage to do. As for quality as compared to quantity, well, that happens. Meeting people here or anywhere else is a crap shoot. Overall, you're doing pretty well. Just hang in there.

Congratulations on your weight loss. Despite other little problems that might arise, losing that much weight is in and of itself a good thing. Are you feeling better physically? You should.


CruelKitty 45F
90 posts
7/3/2005 12:35 am

I'm feeling better physically...finding more and more things that I am able to do, such as running, albeit for only 2 minutes at a time...but more importantly I am feeling better emotionally.


rm_affbreak 46M
287 posts
7/4/2005 4:42 am

4th of July has no meaning for all the people over here in Europe ... so if your men are busy, we'll do the jobs you ask us for.


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