Stalkers - those ignorant creeps  

CreepsStayAway 47F
2 posts
10/30/2005 4:13 am

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Stalkers - those ignorant creeps


My handle "CreepsStayAway" was chosen after I began running into a problem with someone online. An internet stalker. At first I was angry, the frustrated, then angry again but then I began getting frightened. ALl this was exhausting and was just not healthy. I was giving power over to this asshole instead of keeping my power. I was allowing him to victimize me until finally the fear subsided and I said ENOUGH! The asshole stilll lurks, his insanity can't help him think clearly obviously. But I will not play the victim. I am a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman. I am a survivor. I have proceeded with caution since getting this unwanted "fan" with postings on this site and had even took my profile off for a while. At this point I will begin again to be who I am and forget about that asshole! I will not indanger myself but I will NOT be seen as some helpless, powerless woman. If ever there becomes a time where I can positively ID this person authorities will be called in. I will not play his games and take the fear he is dealing. Until then, I can only pray he gets a life, gets a clue and stops bothering nice people. Good luck to all of you!
Peace

DCEbony
1586 posts
10/30/2005 5:53 am

CSA -

Sorry you had to go through this.

Hopefully this guy will eventually get the hint. I had to block a couple people from emailing me and posting on my blog.

One of them took the extra step of creating another profile (!) so he could establish contact again and I had to block that name, too. As fast as he can create the names, I can keep on blocking. LOL

It's a good thing I'd never met these individuals otherwise it would be ten times worse.

Anyway, take good care and continue to fight the good fight. You're not in the wrong here and you shouldn't have to curtail your activities because the asshole can't take a hint.

Peace.
DCE


overworkedloon 56M
400 posts
10/31/2005 11:43 am

Some steps you might be able to take.

If he's on AdultFriendFinder, make a complaint about him. I'm guessing he isn't though.

If he's harassing you on AIM or Yahoo IM. First make sure your chats are logged, that way you have an example of the stuff he says. Then complain to AOL or Yahoo about his behaviour. Chances are they will ban his ID. There isn't much you can do I'm afraid to keep him from using another ID though.

If it's harassing emails. Then find out his email provider. that's the name after the @. and complain about his behaviour to them. Google the such and such dot com or whatever it is, that should get you to their homepage and it will usually have contact info on it.

The main thing is keep copies of any harassing messages he sends you. I'm afraid the police would not become involved unless he threatens harm to you and indicates he knows how to find you though.

Good luck.


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