The Guessing Game  

Cowgirlin101 41F
11 posts
4/3/2006 3:19 am

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4/26/2006 12:12 pm

The Guessing Game

I will be the first to admit that I have played a few games in relationships and actually enjoyed them, but one thing I never try to do is play the guessing game. You know what I'm talking about. You keep dragging some poor soul along all the while they're wondering if you dig them or not. I think this is one of the most cruelest games possible, yet it happens all the time.

When dealing with other people, especially in relationships, I try to keep the other person's feelings in mind. I try to be upfront and honest about the way I feel. Either I like you like that or I don't. I won't leave you sitting there until your butt is numb, scratching your head and wondering what game I'm playing. I won't lead you on thinking you have a chance when in all actuality, you never stood one. I expected the same treatment from others, but once again, my morals aren't that of others. It seems that there are many a men out there who like to play the guessing game. They like to see me chasing my tail all around the mulberry bush while awaiting some sort of clue as to their emotions. I find it even more amusing how upset they get when they finally do decide to return my call and I conveniently don't answer. Like I'm supposed to plant my booty by the phone and await their call? I think not. If you can't be decent enough to explain yourself from the get-go, I have no need for you. A man that can't make up his mind is as useful to me as a comb without teeth. I can use it all day long, but it won't get me anywhere. I just don't understand what good could come from this game. What benefit is reaped by not voicing your feelings for someone, whether they be good or bad? None that I can think of. It seems that in the end, everyone loses in a situation like this. Sheesh...and you wonder why I'm still single?

iluv2skivt 48M
3 posts
4/3/2006 5:20 am

Hey, that comes from men with little maturity. Not that I am mature all the time, but you need to find someone that is direct. I am that way, so when I am very direct, if I dont get a reply, it does mean only one thing...they are full of shit. Remember, actions are the if the guy calls regularly, is always honest, and looks you in the eye...start there.

I find a lot of ladies, many of my friends included, just want to make a man be me, only he can do that.

You are too beautiful to need to put up with much. Try my advice, be direct and tell him hey, I am not looking to marry you, but you are going to need to be straight with me or have no chance.

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