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Set in Stone
Set in Stone
There are some things in this world that I know I will never understand. Like how a man can think grabbing himself "down there" and shouting random garbage will woo a woman or how some women think that they look great in spandex leggings even if it is about to burst at the seams. Nobody looks good in spandex! That's not the point though. The point is that although there are some things I'm not meant to understand, there are some things that should be crystal clear. Things that I should not have to sit and ponder, yet I find myself doing exactly that.
I shouldn't have to wonder if a friend is really a friend. There should be no mistaking a bond like that, yet after recent events, I'm not sure if what we have is a friendship or a just a front as one. I also shouldn't have to wonder if a promise will be kept. Promises are not something you "repeat after me" and then sweep under the rug like it never existed, yet that seems to be the case as of late. With so many things that I thought should be definite, I find myself doing a lot of second guessing. I used to think that certain things were absolute and would always be the same way. I thought that through all of life's uncertainty, there were things that one could be sure of (besides the eat, sleep, and die part). I am finding this harder and harder to believe. There are too many things that can happen to promote change. There are so many different ways things can play out. So, although I used to think friendship and promises were set in stone, I have come to realize that as long as we are human, nothing can be definite (except the eat, sleep, and die part).