AFF Cock Up.  

Cousin_Norman 63M
458 posts
7/26/2006 4:41 am

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7/29/2006 12:52 pm

AFF Cock Up.

OK AdultFriendFinder, What's going on ??? All of SW3's comments have been removed, not just in my blog but in other peoples blogs.

Poor K, Hope you get things sorted. I know you have done nothing wrong. It's obviously another cock up by AdultFriendFinder.

Come back soon.


phoenix639 49F

7/26/2006 6:54 am

I was chatting to her for ages this morning (she was up late) & during our chatting we noticed she had gone. Profile, blog, posts everything.

She phoned CS & they couldnt do anything then as it was out of hours...weird as someone had pulled the plug on her existance just 30 minutes previous.

Shes rather annoyed but will call CS when it opens.


header1979 37M
507 posts
7/26/2006 7:57 am

I have sent her an email to find out what happened.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/26/2006 3:36 pm

OK everybody, Thanks for the update. Seems I have been missing something. It seems strange that two people who I like and I think like me can not get along.

Good job they did not come to the meet in Wigan. That would of been fun. On second thoughts, PERHAPS NOT.


header1979 37M
507 posts
7/26/2006 8:41 pm

SW3 has been undeleted and all her posts are back on the website. I hope this is the end of the drama.


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/27/2006 3:01 am

Tony, thank you for noticing my service was temporarily interrupted! You’re a sweet and thoughtful guy and I am one of the fortunate few who know that about you! {=}

To one and all, thank you for caring! It means a lot!

SW3


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/27/2006 5:36 am

OK everybody, I received an email off John this morning. I am showing you part of it as I don't think the rest of it will serve any useful purpose as far as my friendship goes with other members.

Dear Tony,

How are you? I hope you are well.

Could you kindly inform your friends at AdultFriendFinder that I was not kicked off the site?
I resigned after the continued harassment which followed after my
name was posted by that silly old cunt Highpockets.

I have no intention of rejoining any site which does not protect the
Privacy and confidentiality of it's members.

Best wishes to you cobber from Oz.

John

Now John has his faults, but so do we all. I have been told that he is a racist a sexist and many other things. I don't believe for one minute that he is. The world is full of political correctness and it has got to the stage where humour about the subjects John makes jokes about is taboo to everybody. We should all be able to laugh at ourselves and I make no apologies for liking his sense of humour.

Highpockets has his issues with John and that is his prerogative. I will make one small point about HP and that is, I have seen a rascist post on his blog in the past. I think the post was called towel heads and ended with the comment little sheet heads. Everybody thought this post was hilarious, but I have not visited his blog since, because of the hypocracy that I saw on the post.

I really do agree with John that HP publishing John's name was a really serious breach of the confidentiality that we all deserve on this site. Their is no excuse for this happening no matter what problems you have with people, that was an evil thing to do in my opinon and it is only my opinion.

I am glad you are back SW3, but maybe before you get in to these wars you should take a step back and think to yourself, It's just a big game and I really should not get involved. I know you are defending your friends, but you had to get yourself out of the shit with AdultFriendFinder. I only seen a few of your friends that were concerned enough to notice that you were even gone.

They are my thoughts on the matter. I am not interested in what he said, she said. The whole fucking lot just goes around and around in continous insults, more people being drawn in and people taking sides. I have nothing else to say in the matter.


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/27/2006 6:53 am

Gotcha, big guy. ~SW3


phoenix639 49F

7/27/2006 7:13 am

Tony it must be difficult being the man in the middle of 'warring' friends.

I take my hat off to you as you have actually shown a fair bit of diplomacy over the whole charade.

What probably started as a silly joke became hurtful.

Its hard not to take sides when friends are involved, its times as such when we discover who are the real friends & who are the latch's on.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/27/2006 3:59 pm

Now Phoe has gone missing. WTF ???


curvymeli 39F

7/27/2006 6:55 pm

Hm, I'm not even getting in on this drama. I think all of us have sides which we choose to show or not show to the world, and it is always a shame when beautiful or wonderful people don't allow others in on their good points.

I have always believed, too, that it is never a good idea to be unnecessarily cruel or put the sort of bad energy out there that some people choose to do, just to prove how intelligent or witty or above everyone else they are.

Personally I hope my friends stick around and I also hope I continue to find others as wonderful as some of them have shown themselves to be to me. I count myself very lucky to get the opportunity to change my opinions for good.

many kisses, Tony. If you ever get the notion to hop over the big pond I will do all I can to recirpocate for you the kindness, generosity, and fabulous time you showed me!!


phoenix639 49F

7/28/2006 3:56 am

Im back.

But disgusted with the incompetence of CS.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/28/2006 7:23 am

Made up you are back Phoe.

I think a few others missed you as well lol.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/28/2006 7:25 am

    Quoting curvymeli:
    Hm, I'm not even getting in on this drama. I think all of us have sides which we choose to show or not show to the world, and it is always a shame when beautiful or wonderful people don't allow others in on their good points.

    I have always believed, too, that it is never a good idea to be unnecessarily cruel or put the sort of bad energy out there that some people choose to do, just to prove how intelligent or witty or above everyone else they are.

    Personally I hope my friends stick around and I also hope I continue to find others as wonderful as some of them have shown themselves to be to me. I count myself very lucky to get the opportunity to change my opinions for good.

    many kisses, Tony. If you ever get the notion to hop over the big pond I will do all I can to recirpocate for you the kindness, generosity, and fabulous time you showed me!!
Thank you for your kind words, You wonderful person you.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/28/2006 7:33 am

    Quoting SexySensualSane:
    Anthony, I agree with Phoenix, It's not easy to be in your situation and I admire you for being true to your beliefs. John is lucky to count you as a friend as you have proved you are a true friend and will not be swayed by the majority.

    I agree, there's not one of us here who hasn't at one time or another said something tactless, hurtful or even racial. The thing is, with most people, we see other sides to them as well, good and decent sides, and so we let the "harsh remarks" slide. John never cared to show us another side, EVER. He only showed us hatred, bitterness and venom. Out of over 250 posts there wasn't ONE real question among them, just a daily onslaught of hate and personal attacks. I'm sure you got to see the other side of him though, and that's why you feel as you do. It's a shame he refused to show it to anyone else.

    I don't hate John, I think he has to be an unhappy man. If you remember, very early on, I tried with him. I wrote to him, recounting my own rocky start when I first came here and offered to wipe the slate clean if he would just stop being constantly abusive. You remember what I got for my effort, right? I didn't try again.

    I will say HP did not put John's name out there, in fact he wasn't even the one who noticed it at first. John signed his own first and last names in early blogs, yours was one he did it very often in. Also, I'm not going to make this post longer, but his letter is a crock and I know that 100% absolutely for sure he did not resign on his own.

    John could have made friends here if he would have just shown that there was more to him than a hateful man who delighted in abusing others. Why do you think you managed to retain so many friends after your problems here??? Because we had all seen another side of you, we knew you were a decent caring man going through some hard times.
Thanks for that K. Try and move on hey ??? and put that lilac underwear back on lol.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/28/2006 5:52 pm

    Quoting SexySensualSane:
    Thanks for that K. Try and move on hey ??? and put that lilac underwear back on lol.

    LAVENDER !!!!!..... lolol, there ya go, didn't know I could be so accomodating did ya???
Wow, What a woman. I am sure I once said that was lavender and you told me it was lilac. It really does suit you K.


HighPocKets1938 78M

7/28/2006 9:40 pm

    Quoting Cousin_Norman:
    OK everybody, I received an email off John this morning. I am showing you part of it as I don't think the rest of it will serve any useful purpose as far as my friendship goes with other members.

    Dear Tony,

    How are you? I hope you are well.

    Could you kindly inform your friends at AdultFriendFinder that I was not kicked off the site?
    I resigned after the continued harassment which followed after my
    name was posted by that silly old cunt Highpockets.

    I have no intention of rejoining any site which does not protect the
    Privacy and confidentiality of it's members.

    Best wishes to you cobber from Oz.

    John

    Now John has his faults, but so do we all. I have been told that he is a racist a sexist and many other things. I don't believe for one minute that he is. The world is full of political correctness and it has got to the stage where humour about the subjects John makes jokes about is taboo to everybody. We should all be able to laugh at ourselves and I make no apologies for liking his sense of humour.

    Highpockets has his issues with John and that is his prerogative. I will make one small point about HP and that is, I have seen a rascist post on his blog in the past. I think the post was called towel heads and ended with the comment little sheet heads. Everybody thought this post was hilarious, but I have not visited his blog since, because of the hypocracy that I saw on the post.

    I really do agree with John that HP publishing John's name was a really serious breach of the confidentiality that we all deserve on this site. Their is no excuse for this happening no matter what problems you have with people, that was an evil thing to do in my opinon and it is only my opinion.

    I am glad you are back SW3, but maybe before you get in to these wars you should take a step back and think to yourself, It's just a big game and I really should not get involved. I know you are defending your friends, but you had to get yourself out of the shit with AdultFriendFinder. I only seen a few of your friends that were concerned enough to notice that you were even gone.

    They are my thoughts on the matter. I am not interested in what he said, she said. The whole fucking lot just goes around and around in continous insults, more people being drawn in and people taking sides. I have nothing else to say in the matter.
If I may, I would like to bring to your attention that the "racist post" that you refer to is nothing more than a quoted joke that has been bantered around for well over two years. It was originally posted on goodjokes and other places on the net as well.

However, be that as it may, I would like to offer my apologies to you if you were offended by my post. It was in no manner ever meant to offend anyone. I do hope that you will take another look at my blog and please read the back pages, you may find a person that you could call a friend.


Cousin_Norman 63M

7/29/2006 6:17 am

    Quoting HighPocKets1938:
    If I may, I would like to bring to your attention that the "racist post" that you refer to is nothing more than a quoted joke that has been bantered around for well over two years. It was originally posted on goodjokes and other places on the net as well.

    However, be that as it may, I would like to offer my apologies to you if you were offended by my post. It was in no manner ever meant to offend anyone. I do hope that you will take another look at my blog and please read the back pages, you may find a person that you could call a friend.
Like I said in my next post HP. I have now taken my blinkers off. I am sure you are a good man. You must be, My friends think so. I will indeed take a look at your back pages. I am sure I will find you to be a welcoming friend. Take care.


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