What Benefits Fo Couples Get From Playing?  

rm_Couples_Club 41G
44 posts
8/23/2006 9:52 am

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11/17/2006 9:35 am

What Benefits Fo Couples Get From Playing?


How does swinging affect marriages?
Does age and length of marriage make a difference?

What do single guys need to learn in order to get invited to play with a couple.

Tell some of your experiences.

electriccompany 52M

8/23/2006 10:23 am

Basically all you need is a tire and a rope. The bars of the cage will support everything just fine. And banana leaves make a great gift.

Whoops! Excuse me. I thought this was Adult Orangutan Finder!


dandy6912000 60M/59F
3383 posts
8/23/2006 10:59 am

Well for us it is a added pleasure of watching each other getting off from another person , that could be different then we have come accustom to. Later being able to say, that was different and neat the way he or she gets into it.
Does age or the lenght of marriage make a different: Well, after your parenting days come to an end , maybe recaptureing times that have slipped away is a factor, and knowing something that was always a turn on for us but not having the time to do it, makes it work for us.
As for single guys; First they should understand most couple have no problems of full filling thier partner desire. to respect a couple that do enjoy this.
As for experence: have to say we had a few, but that will be left to just saying that. kiss but not telling.


rookie_pair 52M/51F
5 posts
8/24/2006 11:36 am

Swinging is to us, for couples with stable, happy, fulfilling marraiges. This is NOT a way to fix a broken marraige. Swinging requires a level of trust and honesty that not all couples have. Even though we have been together forever, we had some difficult times when we started. How long you have been married has nothing to do with it. It is how willing you are to believe in your partner to put your needs as a couple first always. We have been in this for over 6 years and have set up personal rules that we live by. We know that we both enjoy others but would never do this at the risk of our partners well being, either emotional or physical.
Single guys,,,that's a tough one. They need to know that every couple is different. We aren't looking for single men and our profile states this but we have met several great guys that we have become close with. Just respect peoples boundaries and couples will be less likely to feel threatened by single men.
As for experiences, we have had many. Some have been great and have resulted in long term friendships. Others have been fun casual sex with people that we like but wont try to remain close with and others have just been bad from the beginning. We want friends, with or without the sex.

Here's to making more friends!


abfabulous3 49M/46F

9/9/2006 1:46 pm

As I said where and when?


GatchLevinDepot 56M/56F
96 posts
2/1/2008 7:01 am

WITH US ITS JUST FOR FUN . I DON'T WANT TO TAKE A LOT RISKS . CAN I SAY THAT WORD WITH OUT BEING A TURN OFF ? I LIKE TO WATCH HER GET SCREWED BUT AM CAREFUL TO PICK THE RIGHT GUY . SO SHE WILL ENJOY IT AND LET HIM SCREW HER A LOT . LOL WE HAVE A COUPLE ON THE SORT LIST AND WILL PROB LY LET HER PICK ON SOON .WITH US THE FANTASY IS A LOT OF THE FUN . LIKE TO HER FROM LIKE MINDED COUPLES.


flyinhawaiian121 38M
1 post
6/30/2013 6:46 pm

I have been involved with a number of couples. Each couple was unique, yet each had been such a positive experience them, and for me. I came into their lives as an avenue of exploration that they could traverse together. I couldn't say about what their marriage was like before I came into the picture, but they all seemed solid to me. After each time, the pillow talk was just amazing. A real uniting of emotions and feelings and laughter and expression. One couple had said they never experienced that kind of connection after sex...I like to think that I had a role to play in adding happiness to some peoples' marriages.


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