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Just some insights for those who choose to know me better.

It's always about the passion. There is nothing better than being curled up with your best friend, with benefits.

Remember...My Mind, My Body, My Choices.

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Careless Whispers... Aug 12, 2010 3:41 pm
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Half-Nekkid Wednesday... May 9, 2012 12:50 pm
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So what have I missed?

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The Perfect Lover... Apr 5, 2012 5:16 am
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What's not to love, right?

If only it were that simple as reading the book.

So many wonderful, incredible moments to be had, all at your fingertips and just waiting to be enjoyed, once you’ve found the one who wants to share them with you.



There is one important thing that these books lack and fail to recognize. It’s a simple pleasure that a man provides to a woman that actually creates the desire to want to share these moments with you. Maybe the books assume if you’ve gotten this far in the pleasure spectrum that you have both already figured this out?

Guys, I know “you wanna”? usually works, especially for you gamey guys. , but this is not what I am referencing.

It’s the simplest of moments that when shared can create and stir the deepest of sensual pleasures within a woman (well this one anyway), but yet it is rarely given freely and when it is, there are usually hidden costs.



Yes, it’s your ‘Attention’. The smallest amount of it, even a simple ‘Hello’, creates desire. I need to feel your desire to keep one of my own alive. Yes, desire can be that simple to create, but beware, it wil rapidly dissipate if you make your ‘attention’ a power struggle.

It's an integral part of the foreplay, plain and simple.



If men only realized how far that simple “I’m just out straight right now, but I’m still thinking of you” actually meant and the desire it creates in a woman, then maybe they would take that 30 seconds out of their very busy day and enjoy those hours of love making more often.



Yeah guys, it is that important and that simple. If you are really pressed for time, shorten it to "I'm thinking of you". It’s not about a woman being an ‘attention whore’, it’s about creating desire. Try it, test it, experiment with it, I bet you are successful and amazed at how little effort it really takes. Those who have figured it out are reaping the rewards of it.



The Man is a Temple
The Woman is the Alter
Before the Temple we uncover ourselves;
before the Alter we kneel down...
The man is where the Earth ends.
The Woman where Heaven starts.
(Victor Hugo)

You need to explore all of the depths of this statement, not just it's surface value. Aren't we all seeking Heaven?

Put me to the test. Send a simple “I’m thinking of you” and see what happens. Go ahead, send it to the one you desire. Don’t be a smart-ass and send it randomly to just anyone, you are just screwing yourself and looking to fail, so I can already tell you, you will. Feel free to prove me wrong.

A man will offer to lick your pussy for hours and all of the sexual attention you could possibly desire, but yet 5 minutes of conversation, to ignite and keep that fire smoldering within her, is an effort that will elude and anger him.

Are you really that busy to share those simple moments that bring a smile and so much pleasure to her?

Why is that? She will only want to please you back.



…and to my good blogging friend that I know wholeheartedly gets this, I only wish I had the answer that would create the desire in her that matches yours.
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Hot or Not... Mar 31, 2012 7:33 pm
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I'm liking it...it fits my mood.



So Blogville...Hot or Not?

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Half-Nekkid Cougar-on-Cam... Mar 14, 2012 5:09 am
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It's been a long time since I have turned on my cam here...



I wonder if everyone would find as much excitement in watching me as I find in showing off for you...



I may need some motivating words and encouragement.

Should I bring a friend...or play alone?

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Half-Nekkid Cougar... Mar 7, 2012 4:04 am
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Every Day is Better...Half-Nekkid!

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Half-Nekkid Saturday... Mar 3, 2012 5:19 am
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I've missed the last few HNW's and My blog seems in need of some GirlieBits...

I am SO in the mood this morning.

This is how I would greet you if you walked through the door today.

Is that a knock I hear?
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Half-Nekkid Tingles... Jan 25, 2012 2:27 am
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I love the feel of a man's hands on my feet. I like to feel their strength and the warmth of their touch through my stockings.



Caressing my arches, the soles of my feet and my toes sends shivers up my legs and tingles to all of the right places.

Help me off with this other shoe please...
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Cougar is Half-Nekkid, Again... Jan 18, 2012 3:27 am
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Those of you who know me, know there is little chance of me moving my hands and posting it here.



BUT, I may be sweet-talked into a private showing...

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Winter Warmth... Jan 16, 2012 12:59 pm
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It's cold out. The wind is blowing. They sky is gray.



The Perfect Afternoon.



I'll light the candles,
will someone please draw the bath...

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Half-Nekkid Cougar... Jan 11, 2012 9:19 am
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I've missed Wednesday's around here...

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The Best Things in Life... Dec 31, 2011 12:22 pm
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Are the wonderful things that others share with us. I plan to start the New Year on a positive note.

2011 was an interesting year. New Friends, New Loves, New Beginnings.
Doors that Opened and sadly, those that Closed.

So many times the hurtful things that others say to us, stay and dominate our thoughts.
What did Julia Roberts say in Pretty Woman after Richard Gere said to her...
"You have so many amazing qualities"



"The bad stuff is easier to believe"...

Let's take this moment and share with each other some of the most complimentary things that we have heard from someone special in our life and embrace that thought moving forward into 2012. This is not intended as any type of conceit, more a look at the positive qualities we ALL have and other's have seen in us, even when we don't always see them in ourselves.

Here are a couple of wonderful things said to me that I never forgot, so I am going to embrace them as positives for 2012.

"You are an Amazing Woman and deserve only the Best"

"The Men who have not taken the time to know you are Idiots...they have no idea how incredible you Are!"



Both were said to me with all of our clothes on, by men still in my life as wonderful friends. Their words are worth embracing and moving forward with, so I will.

What complimentary words from another would you like to embrace for



Let's start the New Year with the BEST of thoughts!
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Hot or Not... Dec 30, 2011 3:52 am
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I'm kind of liking it and think it has great possibilities with the right panties.

I love LaPerla lingerie...what do you think?

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