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Oh man, I just got shot down because I'm not single. Which is actually news to me. Apparently because I went bowling with Carolyn 6 days ago, we're dating. I wish someone would tell her that, since I haven't heard from her since. Tomorrow will be my three-call rule: If I call her and she doesn't call back, that's it. I'm betting I won't hear from her, but I try to stick to my rules. I should probably swear off high school girls again.
Here's what I don't get about first dates... how do you decide right then and there that you never want to see that person again? I mean, it's one thing if you fight with your date. That's understandable. But if you get along and there's no immediate "time for sex!" spark, how can you decide you don't want that person to be part of your life after an hour or so of knowing them? I don't think I've ever met someone who turned out to be exactly like I thought they were when I first met them. That's why I try not to judge. I guess that makes me unique. Just imagine how many people don't get to know each other simply because they don't take the time.
This post sucks. It's not like me to whine over stuff like this. But I figure if I'm honest about the good stuff, I might as well be honest about the bad stuff too.
I guess the real point of all this is that I don't know when I'm classified as "seeing" someone. Obviously if you're using the term "girlfriend", you're seeing someone. But what about fuck buddies? Does that count? And if you're not fucking someone, but you've been on a few dates, does that count if you're not exclusively dating?