Change of personality  

Corqer32 43M
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3/2/2006 7:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Change of personality


Okay, so help me out here. How does a guy like me, one who tends to be more tender and slow in the bedroom, change to be more forceful? My focus is often on the gradual pleasuring of a woman, but initiating gradually - I'm likely to start with gentle touches versus forcibly rolling her over or grabbing her breasts violently. I'm not a real BDSM (light or otherwise) sort - well, never have been. Now I'm presented with a situation where being the more dominant, more forceful "take her and have my way with her" type would be desired. Yet, it's very much at odds with the way I've always been. Is there a starting point for this sort of thing? I plan to read some light BDSM stories for ideas, but getting my mind around the concept of "gentle=respectful and intimate" with a woman will be tricky to do. How does one learn to associate rougher play with intimacy?

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