Why am I such a miserable so and so?  

ChrisDL 47M
362 posts
3/29/2005 1:40 pm

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Why am I such a miserable so and so?

People who I chat to, must wonder why I'm such a sad individual, and the first two posts on this blog are pretty depressing.

It struck me after the last posting, that actually I had lots of reasons not to be miserable, and I thought I should list a few, just to remind me

1 - I have some good friends online
2 - I have some good friends offline
3 - I have the respect of colleagues and clients
4 - I have pretty good health
5 - My sisters are both happy with their guys

I'm going to keep adding to this, I hope - its purely selfish, but I need to be reminded that its not all me, me, me in this life

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
3/29/2005 2:37 pm

A positive attitude usually yields positive results.

Tala4u2 54M  
2957 posts
3/29/2005 2:56 pm

yep all those good things and you feel miserable. You just want to be yourself and express who you are without the trappings that smother your opersona in the outside world. This is the place to do it.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

dane2605 42M
13 posts
3/29/2005 4:02 pm

i agree with keith, you have to be positive, and you will be rewarded with good results....your a decent individual....dont ever sell yourself short, ok

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
3/30/2005 1:55 am


I'm sure you can add lots of things to that list... it sometimes takes a hard look to find them but they're there. Even I have found some sometimes, so that must be possible for you as well.

So, yes, keep adding, and be selfish in that. And like dane put it... don't continue to sell yourself short ...

* blows a kiss *

ChrisDL 47M

3/31/2005 12:16 pm

Thank you all for your thoughts - tala is right, except that I don't think I can any much more on here than I am in real life - some built in safety cut out kicks in

rm_EE407 41F
3903 posts
4/3/2005 12:40 am

DL, focus on the good.... Don't get stuck in the bad stuff... It tends to mean that one can't appreciate the good stuff!!!!

helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
4/10/2005 5:24 am

Chris... we all prefer to see the bad in ourselves, which is why we have friends who remind us that we DO have good in ourselves too!!

So, here I am, as an e-pal, to say... CHRIS... you have loads of good in you!!!


Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
4/12/2005 12:30 am

be positive .learn to love your self and other will then love you,we all like you and we've never met you,

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