What makes you attractive?  

ChrisDL 47M
362 posts
4/13/2005 1:47 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What makes you attractive?

I've always wondered what this secret is - maybe because I'm not attractive. I said this to someone and they told me that if you don't think you are attractive, then you are'nt.

Fair enough, I say, but still - what's the trick?

How do I get myself to think I'm attractive?

Answers on a postcard... (or better still post a reply!)

leyndokona2 49F

4/13/2005 3:55 pm

it's in your heart and your brain. It gets out through your eyes and mouth.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
4/14/2005 6:14 am

its rarely physical,i'm no oil painting but i like my self and because i do ,others see that and like me too,learn to be more confidant and then that will rub off on other people and they will feel more confidant of you

I'm a

i'm here to stay


5/16/2005 11:16 am

... You wont ALLOW anyone to find you attractive Chris, not even a little bit. You've been hurt, and I understand that, but you have to open yourself up to the thought that there ARE people out there who think you are everything you believe you are not. Its a question of learning to trust a little bit; I know thats hard too, the fear of hurt is ever present, but life is not a rehersal for something bigger; its the real deal; you only pass this way once and if you store up too much by way of regret - the twin of self loathing - it becomes a wall you'll NEVER be able to break down.
There is much MORE in you than you think; YOU have to let it out - and only YOU can do that.
Nia ( the lovely other dinosaur)

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