Winks and waves  

Choozmi 50M
746 posts
6/15/2005 9:06 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Winks and waves


Some really wonderful women have winked at me over the last few days. Hi there! Since I'm a Standard Member I can't do much except wink back... but if you write to me I'll be sure to write you back (especially if you tell me what's "behind" the wink...)

If any women are reading this, what do you do and/or think when someone winks at you? What do winks mean to you? (Guys are welcome to respond, too.)

Goldenhairgodess 63F
396 posts
7/8/2005 8:13 am

Assuming I can access their profiles (sometimes yes, sometimes no) I will read it and determine if there is enough common ground for a relationship. If there is, I wink back. If they then email me, we can go forward. Now this can be done when my mailbox is low volume. So no one should expect quick responses to a wink. Email has priority, and then if I am on a Hot List and Winks are in third place.


MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
7/8/2005 4:30 pm

i have a hidden confession...seeing how this thread is about a month old...i just wanted to comment...and say that a few of the women in bootcamp just wanted to show some gratitude towards the lovely men we have the honor to speak, laugh, and play with....we just thought many winks, hotlist additions, network invites, just some attention would be a boost in more play time...(hidden agenda) we know guys have a hard time getting noticed...especially the good guys...like you choozmi!!!! so we just decided to play..flirt a bit to get you all to play a little more!!!!

when i think of what a wink is...i just think of it as a way to show some interests in people. if i like your profile, pics, handle...something i will wink....most of the time i dont send messages right away because i can be long-winded...or brutally honest. so winking is just fine!!!!...when someone winks at me...i check their profile...if its not good then i check the pics..if those are no good i check for site participation..groups..blogs...network...if thats no good...i just delete it....cause if they wanted to have a conversation or get to know the real me...they would join a group i am in...and try to get my attention!!!!

live more, laugh often, love much


Choozmi 50M

7/8/2005 10:20 pm

Thank you, sunrise! Yes, we neglected men need all the ego boosts we can get. Actually if it weren't for the folks on Bootcamp and Fun W&M I wouldn't bother being on this site at all. It's not a bad place but until I started participating in the discussion groups I felt like I was invisible (no one was responding to me at all).


MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
7/9/2005 1:35 pm

anytime...i would have to agree...thats the only reason i am still around...because with the trouble i have to go through...it dont seem all that worth it to me

live more, laugh often, love much


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