What will you do when you find your sweetie?  

Choozmi 50M
746 posts
11/17/2005 12:32 pm

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What will you do when you find your sweetie?

This site is not for everybody. I think anyone reading this will agree with that.

Some people would object to AdultFriendFinder on "moral grounds", even though those grounds may be shifting sands rather than bedrock.

Some people would object to it because they believe in monogomy and assume a site like this encourages promiscuity, unsafe sex, etc., even though those issues are really up to the participants.

Some people would simply view the site as amateur pornography, and they object to porn in any form. I don't equate the site with commercial porn because I believe (most of) the participants are willing and are not engaged in sexual commerce.

I have often wondered what I would do if I became involved with a lover that I met in the "real world" and wanted to introduce her to my AdultFriendFinder friends. Would I ask them to say we'd met on a "dating site" and simply endure the ensuing giggles and winks?

What will you do when/if such a time comes? Will you introduce your new honey to the exciting world of AdultFriendFinder? Or will you close down your membership and say good-bye to all the folks here?

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
11/17/2005 2:17 pm

Well I am still here blogging and chatting, and I scooped up my side desserts 10 months ago.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

cuddlykittenn 42F

11/20/2005 11:44 pm

I would openly discuss it with my partner (as i did with my last boyfriend whom i met in the real world) and see what they thought about it... if they had any interest. I would then look at what i wanted in the relationship and their answer and judge out what my outcome would be.
Sometimes I’m jealous and sometimes I’m not, but that really depends on the specific person involved and how much i feel i can trust them in general or how honest i feel they are being with me. I make no bones about who i am or what i do.

If you don't like what i do in my bedroom, don't visit my house and i won't visit yours.
and remember- some people will judge you no matter what you do.

Choozmi 50M

12/6/2005 11:47 am

Wow... what thoughtful responses. You have all given me a lot to think about.

I actually recommended this site to a woman that I go out with occasionally because she is basically living an AdultFriendFinder lifestyle already and I sense that she feels a little strange about it.

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