It sucks  

Choozmi 50M
746 posts
10/13/2005 1:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

It sucks

In my experience, it is extremely hard to find someone that you truly click with. I've clicked with (and dated) women to whom I was not very attracted and I have dated women I thought were very beautiful but with whom I did not "click". Both situations were extremely frustrating and both went nowhere.

There is someone from my past with whom I am extremely compatible and whom I find unbelievably attractive. We've known each other since we were teenagers. Several times our relationship has evolved into "physical territory" (kissing, making love) but we've never been an item. She cites many reasons ("I love you but I'm not IN LOVE WITH you," "I don't want to ruin our friendship", etc. ) but the long and short of it is that we are not together and it doesn't look like we ever will be (she tends to cancel dates and generally drop the ball when things get too interesting).

I hate that. It sucks. I believe that compatibility is a rare thing and should be seized when it appears. But every tango takes two.

MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
10/17/2005 10:08 am

if she knew how you felt...would that change anything???

live more, laugh often, love much

Choozmi 50M

10/17/2005 10:29 am

She knows. If I've been guilty of anything in my past relationships, it's revealing my feelings instead of hiding them.

What makes me laugh is that I spend considerable energy trying to figure out what certain women "mean" by things they said and did, and most of my female friends do the same thing in regards to men in their lives.

I think I'm getting a liiiiiiiiiiiiiittle better at interpreting clues and hints, however.

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