I say this with all due respect  

Choozmi 50M
746 posts
5/9/2006 3:06 am

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5/11/2006 1:40 pm

I say this with all due respect

Why do transgender, transsexual, and transvestite people try to contact me (i.e., wink)?

I'm not offended by their contact, exactly, but my profile pretty clearly states that I'm a straight boy. That's just the way I am, period. I've never been tempted to try anything but women. Maybe that limits me, but that's the way I am.

I am flattered when I get such contact, but also dismayed because I wish some straight women would get in touch with me.

Actually, I can't complain too much about that because earlier today I received a phone call from "Michelle". I wasn't sure who Michelle was but I didn't want to embarrass her so I just started chatting away. We were having a nice talk and I thought she might be someone I'd met at church a few times and found attractive, so I was kind of excited.

Taking a leap of faith (and figuring her call was for something more than just establishing that I am still alive), I asked her when we were going to see each other again. (Keep in mind that I still don't know who I'm talking to, but she seems to know me.) We talked about tentative plans down the line.

Frustrated now, I asked Michelle how to spell her last name, hoping it might clear up my confusion. She spelled it for me and I realized that we'd gone out on several dates last December! Boy did I feel shallow.

The nice thing, though, is that I was really attracted to her. We stopped dating because she at the time was more interested in someone else. My guess is that is now over. Although I'm a teensy bit annoyed at possibly being a second choice, I think I kind of made up for it by not remembering who she was (I made her repeat a lot of details about herself that she'd already told me while we were dating, which probably didn't make her feel real great).

Happy Monday...

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
5/9/2006 3:49 am

Cause you are so hot!

Purry {=}


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
5/9/2006 4:06 am

coz many don't (can't) read profiles and just are .... trying to get a response

gud luck with Michelle

Choozmi 50M

5/10/2006 6:17 pm

You ladies are nice. Thanks.

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