"If it's meant to be, it will happen"  

Choozmi 50M
746 posts
7/4/2006 9:09 pm

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7/9/2006 3:36 am

"If it's meant to be, it will happen"


I absolutely HATE the expression "If it's meant to be, it will happen"!

I just don't believe it.

I don't believe in destiny. I don't believe that God or any other higher being guides our futures like that.

I believe that God provided us a home that is ours to make into a kind of heaven -- or not. We can take care of the Earth and of each other or not. It's up to us.

If I were to believe that God had lives and paths and futures all picked out for each of us, I would lose interest in living because I wouldn't feel like my choices were mine at all, but His.

If I were to believe that awful things like George Bush or Hitler (sometimes it's hard to tell them apart) were God's intention... let's just say I would not like God anymore.

Notfunanymore 105F
10289 posts
7/4/2006 9:32 pm

So get going buddy, you've got some moves to make!


Choozmi 50M

7/9/2006 3:36 am

Sweetcat, I had a friend who stayed in an abusive relationship for about five years simply because she believed fate had brought her together with the guy: they met on Valentine's Day and they had an abortion together. How sick is that?


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