AFF Women  

Charmingoldguy 62M
21 posts
1/8/2006 11:02 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

AFF Women


Where do I start...I have met a number of ladies from AdultFriendFinder. Most have been very nice people, But for an adult dating and sex site it is darn hard to actually meet women. Or is that just my experience?

I do realize that the ladies here get hundreds of emails.. so how do you stand out?

There has to be a secret to it...someone please let me in on it.

Thanks

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

1/8/2006 12:08 pm

CAN'T TELL YA. A FEW CAUGHT MY EYE FROM THEIR E-MAILS, THEY DIDNT EVEN HAVE A PIC. ONE IT WAS A COMBO PIC AND E-MAIL. AND ONE IT WAS JUST HIS PIC (HE IS AN ASSHOLE). I DO KNOW THE E-MAILS WITH A PHONE NUMBER OR AN OFFER, NEVER GET ME. ONE GUY TOLD ME HE LOVED MY EYES,AND E-MAIL HIM, IF I WOULD LIKE, NO PRESSURE. I LIKED THAT. JUST DON'T BE PUSHY, AND DON'T BE AN ASS IF THEY DO NOT E-MAIL BACK. JUST WINK AS A REMINDER, THAT YOU ARE THERE.


rm_art_persists 52M
1789 posts
1/8/2006 12:20 pm

welcome to the club....


iluvjbsinaz 55M

1/8/2006 12:20 pm

How do you stand out in other places? Same secret.


moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
1/8/2006 2:17 pm

This is how I got through my emailes:
Don't send a body part picture...that instantly gets deleted by me.
Crude and vulgar gets deleted right away...
Don't tell me what you are going to do to me before I have even met you and invited you to my bed...
A sense of humor, politeness, and respect usually gets a respond...

kind thoughts,
Moonfire


nudepink24 36F
29 posts
1/8/2006 6:51 pm

amen! i really don't have anything else to add to their list.

i recently met a wonderful guy and his email i must have looked over but when i found it (he im'd me) he was just really sweet, no nasty picture, no pressure,etc.

OH! and read the girl's profile, i will usually respond when the guys mentions something that i have written and wether he likes it or not and has something in common with it...like if i mention i like the eagles music and he mentions his favorite song or something. make sense? and the girls' posts above you can't go wrong if you follow their answers...good luck! you seem like a nice fellow so it shouldn't be too long.


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