Am I a man-slut?  

Chancy4now 41M
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1/5/2006 11:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Am I a man-slut?


I recently got into an impromtu discussion about the number of sex partners people have had. Without even thinking about how it made me look I blurted out a number. If one includes oral encounters, I have been with 27 women and about 12 guys. I didn't distinguish between sexes in that conversation; I just said, "Ooohh...about 39." The group went silent, then several people expressed a mixture of awe, surprise, and some disapproval. I thought, Hey, I remember most of their names. They were all special in one way or another. I respected each of them and appreciate their willingness to share their bodies and their experience with me. I don't go around looking to add notches to my bedpost or anything like that; I just take life as it comes and try to enjoy the moments that make life beautiful. The numbers don't matter in my opinion. They just reflect factual reality, which is very limited in understanding life. Each of those experiences were unique and special and I learned from all of them in one way or another, even the girl who fucked me just to get back at her boyfriend for cheating on her (consequently, the worst sex I ever had). I also learned from that conversation. My past is a bit "extreme" for many people to comprehend. I will exercise more discretion in the future. If someone asks me directly, from now on I will just demur and say, "Numbers don't tell the whole story."

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