Why  

Cdub2U 61M
73 posts
8/26/2005 11:26 pm

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Why

Why is it that when you want something there is always an obstacle in the way of obtaining your goals? All I wanted from her was some tender loving care and what I got was something close to “do I know you?”

I keep blaming myself for this failed relationship due to my past transgressions and not caring about the feelings of the other, but is there ever forgiveness. Or am I simply doomed to say “I quit” and move on with the next phase of my life. Something I already tried, and for the next three years rebuilt my life, only to be pulled back into this empty shell of non existence.

I wonder what percentage of couples find success after one partner deeply wounds the other partner?


CCcouple25m27f 36M/36F  
154 posts
8/27/2005 6:08 am

While I cant give a percentage per say- we are one couple that has emotionally wounded eachother before. When that trust is gone- its like the world you live in just dropped away and you are floating without an anchor. It can make you seem lost and without hope.
Just remember that there are two in every relationship, and both halves are responsible for the success or failure. My husband and I have worked through a tough relationship with several emotional scars to the point where we have a successful and enjoyable swinging lifestyle. It can be done. Keep on Truckin and Hope it all goes well.
Hugs
~Nina


rm_lil_treasure 47F

1/2/2006 11:43 am

Sometimes wounds are too deep, even when forgivness is given, the scars cannot be erased in the the mind. If you feel the scar everyday, then you are reminded where it came from. So even if you give forgiveness and mean it with all your heart, your head still keeps touching the scar and showing you what the other is capable of doing to you again.


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