A problem.............  

Catharsis33 44M
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4/16/2006 12:29 am

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4/18/2006 5:03 pm

A problem.............

My last post I mentioned a friend, Sha, that was in a bad relationship. Now I don't want to go into to much detail but it is an abusive one. Thinking about this really has bothered me. Why do some, hmmmm I was about to say women but really there are men in this situation to. I am not talking about some sexual fetish like spankings or something but true abuse. Why do some people insist on staying in a destructive environment. I have known several that get beat up and say well it was because of this or they will change I just know it. The problem though is that they keep saying that repeatedly and it never does change.

Is it fear that they will get hurt even worse. Is it a ss hole worship (you know when a girl only likes guys that treat them like crap)? I really don't understand how someone can let themselves be physically and emotionally abused on a constant basis and keep coming back for more. Now I know I lack experience on the matter since I have not been abused or abused my spouse but why?????? Why do these people let themselves be drug down so far and made to feel worthless.

Sha is one of those women that could have any man she wanted by just winking at them. If she put a profile on here with a picture I would have guessed her to be a bot. She has no sense of self worth though due to being abused for so long.

Well maybe someone out there can enlighten me. I will say this though any man that hits a woman as a means to make themselves feel more like a man is a coward and a piece of SHIT period. Dot.

rm_young3901 51M

4/17/2006 1:58 pm

My Father raised me with this (it doesn't take much of a man to hit a woman) I've lived by this and like yourself have never been abusive, be it physically or mentally. Again like yourself I've never understood why people insist on sticking with an abusive partner, I can only assume that their self astiem must be incredibly low. HOW SAD!!

Young3901, former Black Hills guy and missing it.

Catharsis33 44M

4/18/2006 5:03 pm

Young3901 - You father was a wise man and it is good to hear from someone formerly from here.

Sexyfitwoman - Perhaps you are right. Maybe some do not realize how bad they have it because they have nothing better to base it off of. Sounds as though you may have figured it out.

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