First date pressure  

CaptainPrincess 31F
7 posts
10/13/2005 2:00 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

First date pressure

I've been considering finally going out on a date that I've been pushing back and avoiding for a couple of weeks now. The guy is sweet and funny and incredibly cute, I know I would have fun with him. The problem is...maybe too much fun for the first date? He is so incredibly yummy and adorable that...I just wanna...

My friend's think anything goes on a first date, and yeah, maybe some major smooching, that how far this first date shall go? I've been on other dates of course, but nothing past some kisses have happened. But for some reason, I feel different about this first date with this guy...I realize something more could possibly and that fact that I'm considering it is very out of the ordinary with me...I'm that goodie girl that you just wanna slap, ya know? Anyways, another force within though is screaming NO, WRONG WRONG WRONG, STOP STOP STOP...gawd, maybe I was a freakin nun in another life!!!!

rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/18/2005 8:08 pm

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rm_Slider1771 40M
13 posts
11/22/2005 1:00 am

Tough call! I've helped female friends with that sort of thing before (bartending is a hobby.. what can I say? ) and well, I always say that if you have any doubt, don't do it. If it's something you know you want then go for it! But if you have doubts, don't do something you'll regret. If he's a nice enough guy, someone you know well enough, maybe tell him what you are thinking about.. put out a few feelers and see what he says. The one girl I advised that did try this said his answers gave her the confidence to know she was not going to regret it afterwards and she thought much more highly of the guy.

Just some food for thought.. hope it goes(went) well for you, whatever you decide(d)!

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