Will He Know What Hit Him?  

CandyKissBaby 61F
1919 posts
10/14/2005 1:34 pm

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Will He Know What Hit Him?


I've been wanting to get together with this guy for a very long time now. He is so very sweet & sexy & giving. We make a pretty good match & I feel comfortable with him. The things I've done to/with/for him in my dreams would blow his mind. I have all these wild, hot, crazy things in my head, they leave me so hot & wet, it makes it hard to concentrate on anything else. The problem is... I've always had to hold these kinds of things in. I've never had a willing partner who would enjoy it. I've never got to get wild & crazy like I wanted to, not to the degree I felt deep down inside. I've always been a little shy.. honestly I have, but I've overcome a lot of that shyness. I also have this fear of rejection, hubby played a big part in that one.
Well, I really want to get crazy & go wild on him! I know he would love it & it would be lots of fun for both of us. Do you think I should warn him about it first or just hit him before he has a chance to think about it?

kiss XoXo

realmom2 58M/50F

10/14/2005 2:39 pm

The element of surpise is always the best offense. Just go for it sweetie, and rock his world.


swob22 68M

10/14/2005 2:48 pm

unless what you desire causes pain, I recommend you just go for it. He will be delighted and stimulated. If pain is involved, then by all means discuss it first. Think of this, What has holding back gotten you so far? Let er rib and have the time of your life.


rm_j7088 53M
17 posts
10/14/2005 4:24 pm

roll the dice girl and take a chance


CandyKissBaby 61F

10/15/2005 9:11 am

wow, thanks everyone... it's nice to know i can get some honest feed-back on here

I should clarify that I in no way mean anything as physical as actual hitting him, it was just an expression, like 'hit me with your best shot'

agoigo... I think you are reading way to much into this hon. i'm not talking about beating some poor guy up or going abnormally crazy on him to the point of being arrested... i'm talking about hot sexy teasing fun type things

j7088.. thanks hon, i feel i have to take the chance, roll of the dice or not

luv2fuc50... it's not to late for you to get wild & crazy too. you wanna discuss some of your missed opportunties at being that wild & crazy guy?

S457man... thanks hon! woohoo, i have talked to him & he has given me the green light. he just wants me to be myself, to do what i feel like doing.. if it's stripping off my clothes & running through the woods, he's up for that! he trusts me & knows i won't hurt him, cause him any pain & never leave any marks.

holding back hasn't gotten me much of anywhere swob22 and at '49' as agoigo so graciously pointed out, i best get on with it!

thanks again realmom2, i love your encouragement

kiss


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
10/16/2005 3:11 pm

Candy, just go for it. Chances are he will enjoy being 'taken there'. Most guys would, especially in the hot early stages of a sexual affair. Bon chance. warm xx


utbucky 49M
163 posts
10/17/2005 9:44 am

heres how i see it, it works on trust and being comfortable with each other. if theres trust and comfort, you should take the advise here and just go for it. you said he gave you the green light already so that means he trusts you and is comfortable with you. a quote from you *The problem is... I've always had to hold these kinds of things in. I've never had a willing partner who would enjoy it. I've never got to get wild & crazy like I wanted to, not to the degree I felt deep down inside.* sounds to me like you need to act on these feelings and take him the way you want, they way you feel. good luck and keep us posted on this.


rm_PWTJR 61M

10/17/2005 10:23 am

let me tell you Candy, guys that are secure and sure about themselves love openness in what a lady imagines and wants to try.


CandyKissBaby 61F

10/20/2005 10:40 am

    Quoting warmandsexy52:
    Candy, just go for it. Chances are he will enjoy being 'taken there'. Most guys would, especially in the hot early stages of a sexual affair. Bon chance. warm xx
thanks warm, he has given me a lot of encouragement to be myself & do as i please with him.. who could ask for more than that? he says he feels safe & trusting with me also, that is a real good sign
hot early stages of a sexual affair can heat up rather fast.. this is going to be soooo much fun

kiss XoXo


CandyKissBaby 61F

10/20/2005 10:49 am

    Quoting utbucky:
    heres how i see it, it works on trust and being comfortable with each other. if theres trust and comfort, you should take the advise here and just go for it. you said he gave you the green light already so that means he trusts you and is comfortable with you. a quote from you *The problem is... I've always had to hold these kinds of things in. I've never had a willing partner who would enjoy it. I've never got to get wild & crazy like I wanted to, not to the degree I felt deep down inside.* sounds to me like you need to act on these feelings and take him the way you want, they way you feel. good luck and keep us posted on this.
dam bucky, i love the way you think... i'll keep you posted alright! i love being unpredictable & spontaneous, adds so much more spice!

kiss XoXo


CandyKissBaby 61F

10/20/2005 10:52 am

    Quoting rm_PWTJR:
    let me tell you Candy, guys that are secure and sure about themselves love openness in what a lady imagines and wants to try.
thanks pwtjr, i think guys also have to make a lady feel secure & sure about themselves so they won't feel ridiculed or belittled if & when they do open up there imagination.

kiss XoXo


CandyKissBaby 61F

10/21/2005 11:53 am

    Quoting rm_luv2fuc50:
    So Candy, you say it's not to late for me to be that wild and crazy guy too. Don't really know that I've had that many missed oppurtunities except maybe one or two. Isn't that pathetic at age 50. Comes from being dumb and super shy when it came to girls in my younger years. Oh, what I must've missed.
i'm with you there luv... i missed a few opportune times because i was shy & all. that's my point here, i don't want to miss anymore of those fun times

kiss XoXo


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