Single, Divorced, Widowed Guys  

CandyKissBaby 60F
1919 posts
9/28/2005 11:43 am

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Single, Divorced, Widowed Guys

My curiosity is runnin' wild along with my horniness. Go figure!

This is for all you single, divorced or widowed guys... What is your interest in an older, ummm strike that older thing... mature married lady?
What is it she possesses that you want?


utbucky 49M
163 posts
9/28/2005 12:22 pm

oh, this should be good lol.

CandyKissBaby 60F

9/28/2005 1:07 pm

it will only be good if the single, divorced or widowed guys have the balls to reply!


rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
456 posts
9/28/2005 1:10 pm

Besides the obvious a "more mature" woman possesses the sexuall experience needed to know her own body and what it takes to please her. She is not afraid to direct partner it the proper use of whatever tool he has to preform that job so that she can get to the top and over orgasm. As a man sex just isn't great until my partner has her first orgasm. More experenced ladies, with their knowledge, can usually have multiple orgasms while not stopping the action for their man. This leads to a much more gradifying experience for both.
As for why "married". THE ONLY NEED THAT MEN HAVE TO FULFILL FOR THEM IS SEX. Afterall it is assumed that is all we want anyway.

rm_Chrywizard 60M
1 post
9/28/2005 1:21 pm

The answer to your question, from my point of view is simple....
I find mature (older) women much more interesting, sexually fun and more aggressive as to their wants, needs and desires. I prefer a mature woman; due in part to the fact that, they are more in tune with their bodies and they are better able to reach orgasm then younger women. I mean no disrespect to the younger women, however, Younger women tend to be looking for a perfect man, and as such, they seek men who may look really great (tall, muscles, and no added weight around the middle) but, whom are self absorbed and think more of their enjoyment then their lovers.
thats my take on this subject, am I wrong???

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
9/28/2005 2:07 pm

I have blogged more than once (all the way back to Women of AFF...when is "mature" too old for you?)in this regard.

But to answer this directly. Being married, she is not (likely) looking for anything in a relationship that marriage provides such as stability and continuity. Young men are rarely in a position to provide those comforts along with those more material in nature.
At the same time, young single men are amorous, ready to lavish attention. With sex, they often find in a mature woman a person knowledgeable of her needs and desires such that she focusses on those making it easire to achieve them. Nor is she so shy that she does not voice her needs to her lover and may even direct his attention where it is most satisfying. He in turn will be eternally greatful for this education toward being a better lover. It is said (among men in private) that even those younger women willing to instruct are impatient, and scornful in the face of perceived inadequacy in bed. It is the perception that a mature woman generally will not go out of her way to embarrass a younger man. Furthermore, there is not the distraction of what this relationship may mean in the long term as there is no long-term.

This is the short version. I spent my almost my entire sexual life with women older than myself (by as much as 16 years). In 3 instances they were married. In two of those, it was a sexless marriage for 10 years or more.



satnitespecl 59M
1293 posts
9/28/2005 3:59 pm

I think what any guy wants of this uh hum mature lady is to find out how wild and spontaneous your er her sex drive is. The curiosty has peaked.

CandyKissBaby 60F

10/1/2005 7:13 am

satnitespecl... i'd love to find out how wild & spontaneous her sex drive is too!


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