Ladies Inability To Cum Easy  

CandyKissBaby 60F
1919 posts
8/11/2005 9:11 am

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Ladies Inability To Cum Easy

I was told there are 3 reasons why a woman has an inability to cum easy, or at all. They are:

1) bad lover
2) afraid to lose control, fear of being hurt
3) embarrassment, not at ease with herself

What do you think? Why do you think some women can cum so easy & others take so much work?


vette6996 53M

8/11/2005 11:11 am

candy I do believe those are some reasons, some more are mood,location,atmosphere,are there kids in the house if so try a hotel,physical attraction mental attraction,it does not matter how good a lover might be if there is no sparks then there is no last one is not at ease with your lover,I as a man often have take a lot longer than my lady partner and even have not gotten off.your mind and body have to work together

stilobuz 42M
1 post
8/19/2005 6:38 pm

because of stress I think

mailmantrouser2 54M
534 posts
8/22/2005 11:11 am

I have heard it said that "everyone is responsible for their own orgasms." Meaning, that if you can't cum, it's up to you to tell your partner what you need in order to cum. But it's true, if there are too many distractions, it may be impossible.

rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
456 posts
10/6/2005 9:47 am

I believe it's the lover. A good lover can overcome any feelings of embarassment and put a woman at ease with herself. Sex is about 80% to 90% mental and the rest physical. Somewhere along the way a man has got to get in her head for that all important MIND FUCK. Once there if he at all capable and willing to please She wont be able to stop cumming. One orgasm is only the beginning of a good romp. At least that's how it's worked for me. I'v been told I'm a great lover but there is something else that just aint right. Some women have been really scared by the sex being too intense. I'm too old to change now as long as the methods work and I haven't had complaints, at least about the sex.

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