EX PARTNERS  

CUTESMILE1970 47F
1540 posts
7/30/2006 1:43 am

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10/30/2006 8:31 am

EX PARTNERS

Why are ex partners such a pain especially if they wont let go of you and allow you both to move on. Surely it can only go on for so long before they realise that its no good for either of you and can make u both ill.



canny2220 43M

7/30/2006 2:37 am

the trouoble with breakups is normaly only 1 person wants it to happen and the other refuses to admit its happening. therefore the ex clings on like a bad smell


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
7/30/2006 2:48 am

yes i know but after a couple of years tho should learn to let go of the past and embrace the here and now and look forward to the future


silverballs2006 51M
40 posts
7/30/2006 3:52 am

maybe he should get a life
then he will leave you alone


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
7/30/2006 4:28 am

yes i know that silver but he doesnt


freeandeasy1959 57M

7/31/2006 11:18 am

Always diffuicult to let go when you are still in love I suppose. My ex-wife cured my problem by saying some pretty reprehensible things about me to the courts - destroyed any love I had left for her and made it so much easier to walk away. Now I just concentrate on my own life and ensuring I have a good relationship with my son.


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
7/31/2006 12:04 pm

mm but if there wasnt love and some men just like to think they can control u forever and wont let u go and used ur kids to play mind games with u well mine does and hes driving me to the end of my tether


akasha40 45F
915 posts
8/2/2006 3:07 am

can't say i've had that problem luckily for me all i can say iis stand your ground and be strong

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways -Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming, 'WOO HOO, What a Ride!"


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
8/2/2006 7:56 am

either he still has feelings for me or he really hates me, mind u no love lost there then


d_rat69mmm 50M
137 posts
8/2/2006 7:30 pm

    Quoting CUTESMILE1970:
    either he still has feelings for me or he really hates me, mind u no love lost there then
his loss


Cryztal 54F
416 posts
8/7/2006 9:52 am

Because ,, even if they dont want you, they cant bear to see you happy with someone else, so they make life as difficult for you as they possibly can, in the hopes to wear you down.

Cryztal xx

Cryztal xx


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
8/7/2006 10:52 am

yes i know that cryz he said he'd do that to me and two years on hes still doin it


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
8/16/2006 8:48 am

bloody tosser now wants 50% of the house bloody gone up 10% in last 2 months, well i wont go down without a fight


rm_Yummydee 49F

9/15/2006 11:35 am

    Quoting CUTESMILE1970:
    mm but if there wasnt love and some men just like to think they can control u forever and wont let u go and used ur kids to play mind games with u well mine does and hes driving me to the end of my tether
yes know the feeling cute..its so depressing and annoying...my ex was a complete control freak....nearly dragged me to his level....i got up and said no am not having this...this has to stop now!


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
9/15/2006 12:22 pm

well it took me 14.5 years to get the courage to get rid


rm_Yummydee 49F

9/18/2006 3:22 pm

    Quoting CUTESMILE1970:
    well it took me 14.5 years to get the courage to get rid
u left it too late cute.....but at least u out of it now..life can only get better now and u have to look forward to the future..dont let him pull u down and make u miserable..have been there cute and its not pleasant


CUTESMILE1970 47F
941 posts
10/30/2006 8:31 am

well yummy for women who are a similuar situation to what i was its really hard to get the courage to get out and despite making that decision 3 years ago and been on my own for 2 years he still wont let me go the tosser so the arguments about stuff still rages on but in the hands of solicitors who are making loads of money out of it


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