1540 posts
8/7/2006 8:48 am

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8/20/2006 4:13 am


If you like someone is best to use the direct approach and just tell them and wait to be rejected or wait for them to make the first move if they are interested?

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/7/2006 9:13 am

Personally I am a person who makes things happen. I dont tend to sit on the sidelines. Why wait for someone if they arent interested. And the only way to find out if they are interested it to take a chance.

Until later

tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
8/7/2006 9:25 am

why wait to be rejected? Maybe you won't be rejected. Maybe he will never think you like him and not make that move. I think you should go full steam ahead and tell him. That way if it isn't gonna work out, you don't waste any more time on him.

Bye everyone, it was a blast

Cryztal 54F
416 posts
8/7/2006 9:46 am

Make friends with them first,,, take it from there,,if they like you,,you will see the signals,, Good luck !

Cryztal xx

Cryztal xx

941 posts
8/7/2006 10:49 am

thanks girls

BytesRobotPocks 40M
4 posts
8/7/2006 10:57 am

Hungry??? Why Wait, I believe is Snickers Slogan, that's my approach, I am always eager to meet new people don't be too aggressive but go after what you want.

bikerbabe57701 49F

8/7/2006 11:06 am

I guess I'm either too ignorant...or I don't believe in wasting time. If I feel something for someone..I'm not too proud to tell them. If they reject you...they would have anyway. If it makes them think about it....well then your cards are on the table and you've layed it on the line to them. The truth never hurt anyone.

rm_buztac 48M
360 posts
8/7/2006 3:07 pm

After my recent experience, I would be direct. Meet this girl, the girl of my dreams.She had been separated for a year. Mutual friends told me that she didn't want to rush into a relationship quickly and that she wanted to take things slowly. We spoke for hours on the phone, texts, emails and meet up a lot. Things seemed to be going good, until she told me she had meet someone (Gutted!) and that it was early days. We are still in contact with each other.

So the moral of my story is, that if you like someone, don't listen to others. Follow your heart and be direct.

941 posts
8/7/2006 3:57 pm

i guess so buz but she should have been honest with u

rm_stellaman70 46M
1 post
8/8/2006 4:25 am

just ask

941 posts
8/8/2006 3:27 pm

done it and probably made a fool of myself

941 posts
8/11/2006 9:44 am

well so far so good, and i must say im startin to feel good about myself

rm_hardtarget00 55M
128 posts
8/14/2006 8:52 am

Just jump in with both feet! If you want something, go get it! No need to beat around the bush!

SpitTheDaug 71M

8/19/2006 2:21 pm


I have read your profile and have taken in what you have written, I'am a mentor (I help people to get the best from their lifes)please do not put yourself down becuase of others, you are great ,you are Fantastic.


Stay safe, be happy in all you do,be kind to each other and remember !!!!.


941 posts
8/20/2006 4:12 am

i think i will keep my options open cos you cant wait around forever for someone

941 posts
8/20/2006 4:13 am

i think i will keep my options open cos you cant wait around forever for someone cos you never know who or what is around the corner

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