What to do?  

CSG13 38F
7 posts
10/7/2005 4:35 am

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What to do?


I shared a fantasy with my boyfriend, no surprises there; I share all of them with him. Well since I have signed up here I have been thinking about nothing but being with another girl. I used to tease him with comments, but now I’m going into full details for him. The funny thing about this is I have never touched another girl in a sexual way before! All I have to go by is the movies we watch. I know what I want to try, what I think I would be able to do right away, but until I actually meet another girl and we are in the moment I don’t really know what will happen. I do know that just thinking about it makes me so hot and turned on. I have read that quite a few people here are looking for a third person with out luck. Please know that my boyfriend is totally behind my search and will be involved only when invited. Of course I think it would be hot to have him watch. I would like to start with e-mails, get to know each other first, then if we click, set up a chance to meet and talk in person. As I said before, I really have no idea how to start this?
Can I ask other girls here how they felt their first time with another girl? I’m worried I will be terribly nervous or to over eager. I really don’t want to make a fool out of myself, especially after getting so excited about finally doing “it”!
I’m wondering if I should just look for a lesbian club, but I’m not a lesbian and I don’t want to go by myself. I guess it would be ridicules to take my boyfriend with me there huh? I just don’t think a regular club would have what I’m looking for, but I guess I could be wrong?
I would really appreciate any advice anyone can give me in how to get started.

Shell9173 46M/43F
2 posts
10/7/2005 7:41 am

Curious Shy girl,

I am in the same situation. I am married and also have talked about it with my husband. First just to turn him on and now I am curious. I am also very nervous. Finding the right person and if I did what to do. Good luck.

Shell9173


rm_JocelynRenee 54T
11 posts
10/7/2005 7:49 am

Hey curious girl, my wife and I were in a similar position about 7 years ago. If I may, I'd like to offer you some advice. Look in the real world and make your first time one-on-one. It's not that you won't find success stories from this site, but there are a whole lot of time-wasters and outright frauds online. Never give out your address or phone number to anyone until you have had the chance to meet them in person at a public place. Also, you'll be much happier if your first time is one-on-one. You're going to be nervous and really don't need the added pressure of someone else watching you. If you're just looking for an experience without a lot of emotional committment, strip clubs are an excellent place to find playmates. If you're looking for something a little more, gay/les clubs are an excellent place if you're willing to put in the time to get to know people. Every club I've ever been to has some percentage of straight, bi, and curious folks, so it would be appropriate to take your boyfriend.

Good luck in your search!

Hugs,
Jocelyn


KNIGHTY4005 52M

10/7/2005 8:30 am

WOW
I WISH I COULD GIVE YOU AN ANSWER.I WISH THAT MY GIRLFRIEND HAD YOUR ATTITUDE,IVE BEEN DREAMING ABOUT MY GIRL WITH ANOTHER GIRL FOR A LONG TIME.EVERY TIME I MENTION IT SHE DENIES THAT SHE WOULD DO IT,THE FUNNY THING IS THAT SHE HAS HAD SEVERAL GIRLS APPROACH HER ,WITH NO RESULTS."JUST MY LUCK".

LET ME KNOW HOW IT WORKS OUT.


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