So who cares!!!!!!  

CCcouple25m27f 36M/36F  
566 posts
9/29/2005 6:35 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So who cares!!!!!!

(Bodybuilder chicks are hot!!!)

I dont! You could be Purple, Green, Black, Blue, Yellow, Hot Pink! I dont care about color.
Some folks call it Race/Ethnicity. You could have stripes, spots, sparkles! I am telling you I dont care! As long as you are happy with yourself! A kind natural person who is friendly and treats others with respect- you could be chartreuse for all I know!
We have some interracial friends who have a lot of trouble hookin up as a couple. Can you guess why? Some folks have issues with blacks. *shocked expression* Can you believe it? I could not believe that some folks would just slap a stereotype on a couple because the guy or gal is not white. OMG- we cant play with them, they are different from us!

So let me get this straight! You want spice in your life! You are looking to shake it up in the bedroom because things have gotten old between ya- maybe. But oh no! Heaven forbid some white wife fucks a black man. *Oh Lordy NO!*

Let me tell you, I have had the pleasure of getting to know a few inter-racial couples. I have had a fun time with 3 different black gentlemen who rocked my world and showed me that in general they are the same as me and my husband. We all bleed, need to eat, etc. These men know how to have fun, love music, can hold an intelligent conversation without resorting to limited vocabulary such as curseing and or monosyllabic words.

Their wives are lovely women, who deserve respect and whom personally I could eat with or without a spoon! And the one gentleman who is single, and happened to have been my first non Caucasian male to play with, proved that he could be just as creative and entertaining as my husband or any other man who uses his brain could be!

The myth that African American men are so big, your pussy will be forever stretched beyond repair- get it outta your head. I can verify, I am still as tight as I ever will be. Its due to Kegel exercises that tighten the muscles used during sex. Any woman can do them, anywhere at anytime. You dont need a special exerciser to do them, and if you do them at work no one will know. Sitting or standing it doesnt matter! Check it out. Guys can do them too. It helps with control of your erections!

Ok I feel I have preached enough, but it irritates me to see my friends having a hard time with the hookups!

Oh well I guess that means more for me until yall decide you wanna admit your curious!

Hugs n Gropes from the Soapbox

Nina


CCcouple25m27f 36M/36F  
154 posts
9/30/2005 12:42 am

Just some of my friends having hookup trouble due to the color of the hubbys skin- which is stupid!

Nina


luther672 49M

10/1/2005 7:09 am

There's a great little book that your post reminds me of. It's called "It's the Little Things: The Everyday Interactions that Get Under The Skin of Blacks and Whites". It's a great read and a very eye-opening look at things that the two races take for granted about each other.

Fortunately, Nina, there are still people like you an Cowboy in the world who rather get to know people for who they are and not what they are. Personally I try not to let any kind of prejudice phase me...although I do admit that the more ridiculous and "up-in-your-face" exhibitions that some people show do require my "special attention". If people want to be so shallow and not to get to know someone and just put a label on them, then they are the ones with the problem and not me.

Really looking froward toother people's comments about this topic.


rm_treblegne49 67M
8 posts
10/2/2005 11:44 am

I guess i noticed things more on the racial level when I came back to the U.S. I lived in the Pacific Rim for about 25 years and never had a problem with race, color or anything else. Been back here a while now and have noticed some people with serious hang-ups. Too bad for them!! The world and the people in it are a marvelous mix and you really miss out on a lot in life if you don't learn and explore all that's out there. Everything from diverse culters to religions and cuisines make this world a great place. If you ever get a chance to go to Kuala Lampur, Malaysia you will see how many varied cultures live in harmony. Can't wait to meet Nina and Cowboy and Luther. Hope to be at Paradise on Tuesday. Have a great day, Treb.


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