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Random Museings from the mind of Hyper Nina
Random Museings from the mind of Hyper Nina
(I think she is soooooooo hottt!!!! *drool*)
Hi- I am hyper Nina- as oposed to just Nina!
yes folks today I overdosed the caffine stream!!!!!!!!
After working for what seems like an eternity of overnight shifts I have time OFF!!!!!!
*does her booty shake happy dance*
A Sat and Sun off in the fast food industry is almost unheard of, so I am holding fast to the ideal of not answering my phone when it says "McDonalds" on the caller ID!
Ahhh the joys of a comfy Sat morning in front of the computer after a great breakfast at a local full service restaurant!!! (If you ever have the chance, you gotta go to Andys Kitchen here in Corpus for an awesome breakfast!!!!!)
We have not actually played with any others recently- one couple actually told us they might not be playing anymore due to personal reasons-
Sadly, alot of married folks that decide to try the whole swinging lifestyle end up mad at eachother or stop playing because they can't handle it.
Here is my take on the whole lifestyle!
I know my man looks at other women, and would love to play with other women. I would rather know he is gettin some from another woman, than have him run around behind my back- I can deal with sharing, but not with sneakin and cheatin!
As for me- yeah I look at both men and women (although I look at women more often than I do men!) and I play with both men and women. But my husband knows what I do and when I do it.
The folks who try to sneak it or hide it, they can keep on walking because I will be the first to go to your man or woman and say - hey you should know about all the fun thats goin on- you should join in!
If that makes me a B@$% well then I guess I can handle that! Its just how I am- no secrets and no lies.
My advice to couples who are new to swinging who want to make this lifestyle work is this:
Have ground rules that are never broken or bent!
Communicate with your partner
Remember that sex is sex- what you have together is forever!
Justin and I have ground rules that are not to be broken- we have had miscommunications in the past that could have split us up, but we worked through them to build stronger foundations!
Here are our basic rules
1) Always use protection
2) Communucate the plans to eachother
Ex- I want to play with someone solo- I tell him who, what, where, when- no secrets
3) We always come back to eachother- no drama, no breakups (We are married, I wont leave him and he wont leave me! This is for fun, not for serious relationships)
The unspoken rule which everyone should follow is NO means NO - no forcing any situation
I hope my little "long winded" spiel helps out the folks wondering how to survive in this
A F F/Xmatch Jungle
Naked Hugs and Gropes for ALL
8/13/2005 9:11 am
which is pretty much the way we play, too. and why we trust you guys so much, and, i assume, why that trust is returned. |
8/13/2005 6:24 pm
Rules are not always fun to have- but when having "fun" I agree your ground rules are excellent to have- it makes everything easier on everyone involved. It keeps marriages- and friendships- strong while having fun with others.|
8/14/2005 5:07 am
HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU ABOUT ANDYS KITCHEN. THEY DO HAVE GOOD FOOD. USED TO GO QUITE OFTEN FOR THE SATURDAY NIGHT SPECIAL. 16 OZ. T-BONE FOR 9.99. BUT MOVED TO CALALLEN LAST YEAR AND DON'T GO MUCH ANYMORE.|
8/17/2005 6:18 am
To us age is irrelevant- you are as young as you feel. When i wake up, I am either really old or really young- I tend to shift ages as my day progresses |
You should see me on my "young" moments- its almost too funny!
Just ask CCLordDamien
8/17/2005 6:41 pm
To some of us, age only represents experiance. For a long time i was the oldest in the group, and considering that only realy represented a 2 year age gap, it made me feel OLD to realize that i remembered things the other's never experianced. |
But most importantly, you really are only as old as you feel, like the lady said. and she's not the only one who fluctuates in age. Mi' Lady needs alcahol, but she gets YOUNGER as the night goes on when she's drinking. Me, well, i'm not quite 30 yet but my body's already wearing out.... of course, i'm sure getting into punching matches with trucks isn't helping any.