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Cybersex - my impressions so far
Cybersex - my impressions so far
I've posted this piece as a response to [blog heylips].
I've got to say, I don't have a web cam (and never would), and find watching a guy jack off to be fairly boring. I did it once and was really tempted to finish with "well, me, Rob, Pete and all the guys at the Bull's Head pub would like to thank you for the fine display you put on". But I resisted!
I only once had cyber sex which led on to phone sex. He was mindblowingly good at it (I can't multi-task, so luckily I'd picked someone who was a talker, while I masturbated). I daren't try it again, because I know he set the bar so high, the next time would be a disappointment. Fuck, I'll probably get a shiver from almost incomprehensible Irish accents for the rest of my life.
As for cybersex itself, I have a few rules: no phone, no cam, no names.
I spent a couple of weeks hopping round the sex chat forums chatting to anyone and everyone. Sometimes two or three guys in a row. I don't masturbate while I'm chatting, though they apparently do. I like to save it up for later, when I can replay it in my head.
Sometimes, if the session was really hot, I save the transcript of the conversation. But that doesn't happen very often - most guys seem to think their input can be limited to "oooh", "hot", "nice" and "I'm...cumming".
Now I don't mind, really, because I get off on what I type (ego maniac that I am), and I really get off on the idea that I'm getting some guy worked up at the other end. But it's pretty lazy on their part.
I love the fact that cybersex is truly anonymous. If I never get laid again, I can still be doing this at 70, pretending I'm 40 and hot. I got chatting to one of the younger guys one day about this, after we'd finished. He said "Well, you might be 70 now, but you still made me come twice" (hey, the advantages of being 20!). That's such an ego boost.
I never ever meet up with someone I have had cybersex with. It has so much potential for disaster. The fantasy is so much better than reality.
In fact, around 2 months ago, I stumbled across a young guy in Australia who is remarkably good at cybersex. He really gets into the whole role play, right down to the detail of who is wearing what, and what's going on around it. It is like being there. For him, it is bizarre, because his analytical tendencies are precisely what makes it so hard for him to attract female interest in real life.
All I can say is: girls, if he is one tenth as good in reality as he is in cyber sex, you have no idea what you are missing. And I'm glad about that, because that makes him mine, all mine. Ha ha ha.
I don't bother looking for anyone else to chat to now, because he's the best. And I save a lot of the transcripts of our conversations. Steamingly hot, and incredibly kinky.
And because he is so far away, there is zero risk of either of us turning up on each other's doorstep one day. That's what makes a perfect cybersex partner.
Blogito ergo sum.
7/18/2006 11:35 am
Hey consideringbi2, that was an interesting read.|
I bet in real life your a lot of fun.
7/18/2006 1:45 pm
I was a late bloomer too. I didn't get laid till I was 21.|
Why do your friends say your body was stolen by aliens?
7/21/2006 3:08 pm
I agree on the cybersex front - The anonymity means you can "Be anyone & do everything" - I've had some interesting experiences !|