You know how you can just tell?  

ByteChaser2 53M
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8/1/2005 10:02 am

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You know how you can just tell?

We all have that internal "vision" of the perfect mate/partner/significant other right? I mean... I may not know art, but I know what I like ya know? That kind of thing.

So I've been reflecting - again - of late, on how "it" happens... what exactly it is that just seems to click when you find that "One".

Now keep in mind, I had mine and lost her - Yep that's right, I'm talking about "Her" again. (The topic of the first few posts in my blog). But since I'm pondering on this topic, she'll have to be the model - for me.

You know how you can be just walking down the street, minding your own business... Maybe girl watching, maybe just on your way to the store for a half gallon of milk, and out of the clear blue sky you see this person... and you just know that's the One.

That was "Her". The first time I saw Her, I knew. I mean I KNEW she was the "One" And save for one small detail, she was my perfect fit. The two of us were like precision cogs in the finest swiss time-piece. In EVERYTHING. I used to comment to her that we were the perfect fit all the time.

It's rare for me. So rare in fact that I'm positive I'll never find another even remotely like her.

You know how, when your sleeping with your partner, you get to cuddling right before you fall asleep and by morning, you've each staked out your own patches on the bed? Or how you wake up, still embracing but there's an elbow poking you in the chest or some appendage has gone to sleep because it's been denied blood supply all night?

Never with Her.

You know how you can be having a conversation - about anything - and eventually it just kind of dwindles away? She and I could talk about anything, nimbly hopping from one topic to the next... and if it weren't for the need for food and sleep, we'd probably have talked for all eternity.

Even those rare occasions when we didn't quite agree... We always seemed to settle out to some common ground somewhere in the middle.

And the sex... I mean DAMN! We just seemed to be in the perfect positions (no matter what position we happened to be in), in perfect synch. We knew exactly what to do, and at which speed, and for what duration... as though it were some genetic memory passed down to us through eons.

Yeah, sometimes you just bounce from one partner to the next and you hope this is the One... But just once in a lifetime,

you just Know.

redmustang91 57M  
8658 posts
8/2/2005 12:53 pm

Well obsessing about the past won't get the job of the future done!

Besides imperfections can be interesting if approached creatively.

ByteChaser2 53M

8/2/2005 2:24 pm

Brother... I whole heartedly agree. I was just musing on how it is that every once in a lifetime, you know right down in the pit of your stomach, and right from the second you meet, that you've found that special one... That perfect fit. And when you do, hold on with both hands as though your eternal soul hung in the ballance.

Understand now that there are precious few women in the world today that I'd kick out of bed...

Unless there was more room on the floor

rm_mskitty92562 42F

8/2/2005 10:02 pm

Glad to see you back, my dear! I've missed you and your blogs. I read this one and it hit me in the chest. Yeah, babe, I know. I just know. Chat with you soon.

ByteChaser2 53M

8/3/2005 6:39 am

Well good morning Miss Kitty! I've missed you too. And I appologize for being so remiss in chatting with you. Lunch this week? Shout when you can babe.


ByteChaser2 53M

8/5/2005 5:22 pm

Well hey Sallypus! Welcome to the asylum

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