What am I to you...  

ByteChaser2 52M
2834 posts
10/10/2005 3:59 pm

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What am I to you...

A simple question requiring an honest answer. Nothing more, nothing less...

I know what you are to me, I think... Given our mutual circumstances, here in this virtual and anonymous little piece of the Universe.

But seriously, what am I to you?

rm_mskitty92562 42F

10/10/2005 5:30 pm

You are simply my friend, nothing more, nothing less. You are always there with a sweet smile, words of encouragement, a hug when I need it and a martini from Claim Jumper when I REALLY need it! Luv ya, babe!!

rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
10/10/2005 7:21 pm

a mystery

lifeisablast333 53M

10/10/2005 10:12 pm

a stranger


10/10/2005 10:26 pm

I agree with sj, you are a mystery. I have lots of questions, but it is probably none of my business. But your blogs have brightened my days which have been rather bad lately and I thank you for that. Let me tell you about Lexapro, it is the best thing since sliced bread!!! You are sexy and I wish I could get my hands on you!!

ByteChaser2 52M

10/11/2005 5:17 am

mskitty - And you know how much I truely appreciate you too right? I just wish you blogged too. I mean, fair is fair right? You get to see AND hear all the stuff 'n fluff spilling out of MY head

Luv ya right back babe

ByteChaser2 52M

10/11/2005 5:22 am

Morning sj - Just a mystery? Like a CSI "guy laying on a parkbench and no one can figure out why he's dead" kind of mystery? Or maybe a Rainman "6 minutes and 32 seconds till Wopner" kind of mystery?

I'm an open book hun. Everything you could possibly care to know is written right square in the middle of my forhead (and worn on my sleeve as it happens). Keep watching... It's not all that much of a mystery hun

ByteChaser2 52M

10/11/2005 5:31 am

Hiya life - That was definitely to the point and kind of why my thoughts are all scrambled on this. Some time back, one of the bloggers made a comment, coining the phrase "familiar anonymity". I wish I could remember who it was and where I'd read it.

I think he *almost* had it but not quite. It's something more I think. Sure we're all strangers here (with a few notable exceptions) but simultaneously almost intimately familiar with each other. I mean, you and I have never seen each other or spoken directly but I'll wager you know me better than my own family.

And it's a difficult concept for me to reconcile right now. Why is it that I can be so readily open and honest speaking through a keyboard, yet I simply cant bring myself to the same level with co-workers, friends and family?

I'll figure it out eventually - with your help XXX

ByteChaser2 52M

10/11/2005 5:34 am

P1 - I'm an open book hun. You ask away, anything you like. You'll get an honest and open answer. Maybe more than you want to know lol

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
10/11/2005 9:25 am

Byte to me... your like that new friendship that your slowly beginning to know and each day brings new promise of learning and growing with said friend

I have cultivated many new friendships here watching them grow is a great pleasure

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

Lapkin4u 42F

10/11/2005 9:50 am

What you are to me-

You are the wind in my sails, the rain falling on my face.
The sun shining brightly and warmly on my skin, you are my laughter and joy, my sadness and pain. You are the voice of great wisdom when one is seeking, you are the warm hug I crave when I am weeping. You are the smell of freshly baked cookies and the taste of my favorite dessert. The smell of fresh laundry and that damn stain on my shirt! You are the most passionate kiss I have ever received and the most intense orgasm to ever grace my loins. What it really comes down to is what aren't you to me?

You are my friend, and without you, as you can see, nothing would be complete!

Love ya Babe!
Can't wait till March!

helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
10/11/2005 9:58 am

Byte... a man of mystery who likes his car as much as he likes his women Our "friendship" is still new, but who knows where it will lead?


Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
10/11/2005 2:00 pm

A blogger on a blog site with whom I interact with spordically.

See, to prove it I am here...

tillerbabe 55F

10/11/2005 9:30 pm

I'm still "learning" about you sweetie.....and I will continue to do so.
I don't really like "catorgorizing" people...
But so far, you are words on my computer screen, thoughtful, wise and funny. You "tempt" me with your eyes and draw me to your BLOG and I am always happy to see when you have visited me... {=}

patsam69 51M/51F

10/12/2005 4:22 am

Damnit!! You had to go and get all deep on us? GeeeeeeZ!!!

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:04 pm

Miss Synn, my new friend - It's funny that I have so few friends, by which I mean, on this side of the keyboard. It just seems so difficult, at least in my perception, to meet quality people and cultivate a friendship. But here, it's so easy, it's almost uncanny.

I think it has a lot to do with the insights we get here that take so long in the physical world.

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:07 pm

Lapkins - All that? and we havent even met!

"You are the most passionate kiss I have ever received and the most intense orgasm to ever grace my loins."

No pressure Byte... no pressure at all LOL

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:14 pm

Helga - A man of mystery... How so? I'd have thought I was an open book and as transparent as glass...

I dare say though, I like my women far more than any possession. Probably because I could never presume to think of another living being as an object to be owned... Rather a companion to be shared. Yes?

And I'm so pleased you'd consider me a freind. I'm sure you know how I cherish my friends

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:19 pm

Good answer Keith. One would hope our interactions would become less sporadic. Fellow bloggers, passing acquaintances, eventual friends or bitter rivals - makes no difference to me. It's the interactions that promote true mutual understandings I think. Something we should all aspire to.

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:23 pm

Welcome to my asylum Naughty. Browse at your leisure and drink your fill! And when your ready to see just how "unique" I really am, you come right on ahead and hit me up!


ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:35 pm

tiller - I have to say I'm pretty well on the same page with ya. And I hope you don't think I was asking for anyone to place a category label on me because it's not my intention. The last few days I'd been pondering the nature of the relationships I'm enjoying here and why they seem so different from the relationships I've experianced in the physical realm. I thought I might gain some better insight from you all, and help me formulate my own disjointed thoughts into a coherent concept.

I'm not sure what exactly it was that "drew" me to your persona here - most likely the visual cues (I am, after all, a man) not that it really matters - The point is that I am drawn to you as well, intellectually, and am a richer man for meeting you.

The same is as true for all the wonderful people I've come to meet here.

Thanks tiller! XXXX

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 2:38 pm

Hey patsam! Long time!

You know, I don't really consider myself to be all that deep actually. More like indecisive and eternally confused

It's great seein ya's again! XXX

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
10/12/2005 9:04 pm

You said it better than me..

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
10/12/2005 9:40 pm

your a sweety unique in your own ways


tillerbabe 55F

10/13/2005 1:29 am


AmberSolaire 42M

10/13/2005 3:10 am

My symbiotic alien

ByteChaser2 52M

10/14/2005 1:27 pm

Well, you all did it... I'm speachless now. Never thought THAT would happen.

Except your yours Amber... Symbiotic Alien... I think I get it but just to clarify;

Two entities, from completely foreign backgrounds and circumstances, each providing some sustaining element to the other. Kind of a mutually supportive relationship between to seemingly unrelated people. Now THATS deep.

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