Boys are Dumb  

Bubbalicious85 31F
10 posts
5/2/2005 3:45 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Boys are Dumb

A Response to Negative and Sermonizing Comments and emails:

OVBIOUSLY, my boyfriend knows I'm ont the site now. I'm writing all of this for HIM!!! We decided that since this was the venue through which I almost ruined us, it might also be an interesting venue through which I could make up for my actions. Please keep your judgments to yourself. Also, yeah, I AM too young to get married, but not to think about getting married to someone someday. This blog is in no way a joke; do not act so condescending toward me simply based on my age alone. I mean, really, what business do 35 year old men who are on this site to have sex with 18 year olds have telling me anything about what I am or am not too young for? COME ON- Doesn't that seem a little hypocritical to all of you?

The feminist movement has kind of ruined things for women who WANT to be Susie Q. Homemaker, and the sexual revolution has sort of done the same thing for people who want to be monogomous. Don't criticize me for wanting a good, clean, wonderful relationship with someone I love. I may be young, but I'm certainly not naive, and I am mature enough to realize that committed relationships aren't something to shy away from. I only wish I had realized it before I messed everything up.

Thanks for your Narrow Mindedness,


Ok, now that that's out of my system, thanks to those of you who did not preach, ask dumb questions, etc. My boyfriend and I are going through an exceptionally difficult time right now, and he reads what you have to say. If there's anything relevant you think HE might benefit from knowing, feel free to direct your comments toward him too, but be gentle. He deserves to be treated with care...

SingleLove805 38M
1 post
5/2/2005 4:06 pm

Good luck and keep your head up guy.
Stay Strong !

rm_martydm 51M

5/4/2005 10:03 am

Excellent response Bubbalicious! Again, I think you are both lucky to have each other and are doing your best to make things work you two. I must I think you have an excellent attitude and your maturity level is higher/better than some people twice your age! I believe that you two will/can work this out and I hope the people who have commented on your blogs would respectful enough to realize what has happened, what you are going through, and what you are trying to do. I would hope that people would support and help you in this difficult time. I again wish you both the best in getting through this. You two take care of yourselves and to hell w/ what other people think. Your it! Ciao!

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/5/2005 11:59 am

Bubbalicious, I'm sorry if you got negative responses but when you post on here you're going to get all sort's of opinions. If you're thinking everyone on here over 35 is out to fuck anyone under 20, wrong, I just want to have some erotic fun without any physical contact. You are entitled to your opinions as is everyone else. As far as what you did, you made a mistake in some peoples minds and in your own. But think of this, Isn't it better to experience things now when your young and adventurous? Would you rather have waited until you were married to have an affair? I personally think the both of you should look at the positive side of this happening now as opposed to when the relationship is more permanent. If it's love it will survive.

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