Is SEX essential or optional in ones life?  

Bruinsnc2 61M/55F
5 posts
7/22/2006 1:56 pm

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8/27/2006 1:50 pm

Is SEX essential or optional in ones life?

I feel that sex is an essential part of our life and allows our relationship to thread together and become stronger in union as a braided rope is much stronger that a single strand rope. Having someone who shares and respects your moods and desires is important. Couples who can swing together and not feel negative emotions are far more happy than those who lead separate intimate lives.Does anyone have a different take on this? Why are we on this site? Is it loneliness? Or greediness?
Bruinsnc2



wifey3223 47F
126 posts
8/26/2006 12:58 pm

Well, I do agree & don't agree. But i base that on me not finding the right guy to settle down & keep thing's with me as you speak of. I meet allot of men who'll say they're open t these thing's, and then change they're mind's. I don't like a man having so much control over my desires. Maybe cause my dad did when, i was young. I too d anal & noticed you today by you're new deep, picture's. Anal can be a joy,but i find even after dousing, cleaning anal as much as possible. It's more headache then pleasure, i give hand's off to porn star's. Now if, i had days to rest possible,but with my work load wow too much.


wifey3223 47F
126 posts
8/26/2006 1:08 pm

Ps not all braided rope's are strong like single ropes. SIngle ropes are straight all, i've seen & know with way they want to go also. I'm gonna use you're word's & there's many with different color's & styles. As a rope, I can come & go when I like to as entwined robe or braided(you're word's) . You're limited & thats a big difference . while both can equally have fun, pleasure, the freeness is limited to the braided rope & promised to the single.


Bruinsnc2 61M/55F

8/27/2006 1:45 pm

That is a great comment and worthy of thought. Don't first have to realize that we ARE bound to who we are in the first place? Can we change the color of our skin or our gender? You make a good point wifey3223 and I totally respect that. There are no perfect answers. Whatever you feel is GREAT with us. We did this blog as it says post-orgasm and the words were blurred some but now we would want to know what YOU feel about this. Your comments are needed and welcomed.
Bruinsnc2


Bruinsnc2 61M/55F

8/27/2006 1:49 pm

I have no true comment at this time. My husband is a fun loving yet serious man who is not too serious as to think he knows everything and is open to others opinions. I on the other hand enjoy that he is MY best friend for life!!!!
Ms Bruinsnc2


misl 66M
10 posts
9/2/2006 9:35 pm

Heyyyy Wifey !! I hope you find that one (or eleven or however many YOU need) MAN out there who will devote all the time you need to get your swerve on - and I know WE are out there !! He will turn the douche into a pleasurable part of the anal experience, your anticipation of the next step will increase, the burn will turn to gasps of OHMIGAWD, as your mind gets into the sex mode (our minds are our biggest and best sex organs, after all) and I have heard of vaginal squirting from anal penetration !! You're attractive and young so keep looking; maybe change Where you look! be patient, he may show up when you least expect it. However, I must disagree with you about the rope - in its simplest form it is just a string or a thread, skinny and easily broken. Twist a few together into a cord and you have something to hold stuff together. Reverse twist some cords together and you can form a rope, strong enough to stop a bull or a horse and hold it tied to a hitching post. take some of those ropes and you can make a ship hawser which can hold a many thousand ton ship to a pier, tough stuff, indeed. The stings/threads all work together which is the source of their strength - like the seconds spent together in a committed relationship - they add up to more than we might think. You can choose the form of the relationship, monogamous marriage, open marriage, Poly Amory, whatever floats yer boat, but having some ones to rely on and to cry on and to listen to and to help makes a strong rope to pull you through tough times. My 2 cents. Much Love and happy finding!


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