What it feels like  

Boytoucher 28M
4 posts
7/10/2006 8:38 pm

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7/25/2006 3:23 pm

What it feels like

Don't you ever see a man and you could imagine him naked. You would give anything to touch his naked body and cock but you can't. You want to undress him and show your feelings but you can't. The world doesn't except that. I long for a man to touch me feel me, lay with me. I'm also confused. Is it okay to love this way. THis gay way. Shouldn't I be "normal". Please help me.

Transblucency 44M

7/11/2006 8:42 pm

It's totally OK.

If you are gay, you aren't run-of-the-mill, that's for sure. It's not always the easiest road, but it's part of who you are and one day, you wouldn't have it any other way. Some of history's most interesting and brilliant men were gay; there's a rich intellectual, sporting, and creative tradition inextricably entertwined with this sexuality.

If people can't accept that, find people who welcome you for who you are. Denying something that is a central part of your personality (not your only part - your sexuality should never solely define who you are) is a recipe to unhappiness and these days, it's never been easier to be exactly who you are.

You might not be gay. You might be bi, or even just bi-curious, but there's nothing wrong with any of these things, even if there are people who think there are.

I wish you luck and happiness. Just be safe and intelligent in the choices you make, especially regarding sex. Think about it some more, go see a counsellor if you're still having difficulty, then get out there and be yourself, whoever that is.

QuitsClopsSensa 50M
9 posts
7/16/2006 9:44 am

What the hell isnormal? Who decides? Fuck em all I say, and did say finally when I was younger. I can relate to your feelings and I was right where you are now when I was your age too. We live in a very judgemental world and one that thrives on labelling people. I don't think you confused but you are forced to being confused. Just be yourself. Live free and explore the world of possibilites. I finally saw the light and went that route with both my sexuality and my life in general. I wish I had the magic lesson to tell you how to do it but you can. I'm just a sexual being. not gay, not straigth. So if i have to be labelled I'm bi. I'm a human sexual being. I'm not confused I just have choices. A long time ago I gave up giving a fuck what anyone else thought about me or my actions. It was like taking the weight of the world off my shoulders and putting the feast the world has to offer in front of my to explore, sample and enjoy. If you think like that you'll get there too.

explore161 56M

7/18/2006 10:12 am

Your feelings do not make you abnormal. You are perfectly normal and the feelings that you have are no different than anyone else. The only problem is society and its acceptance. I am bi and also must hide my public feelings for those young men such as yourself. I'd love to give you the pleasures you desire. We are human beings and long to be close to those we are attracted to. Lets chat. What it feels like

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