Dating Outside my race...  

BlueLovinLatina 30F
237 posts
7/2/2006 10:31 pm

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7/23/2006 11:50 pm

Dating Outside my race...

So...after all of what happened with the and his room mate started talking as friends...and well now it seems as if we want to take a step forward. I'm ok with it...

The thing is that...Ive never seriously dated anybody that was outside of my race. He's black...and well I have nothing against blacks, but it seems sooooo odd to me. I dunno...Ive never even had a crush on a black guy before. I just thought that I could never be in that situation.

I talked to my friends about it...cause I guess...when the feelings for him were coming about I was trying to fight it. And my friends...were like..he likes you he likes you, and you wouldnt pay attention to him, if u didnt either. SO I finally admitted it, when he told me how he felt about me.

And...last Saturday i went to a party and messed around with a guy that was Cuban...ahhh that was great...I wouldnt have known he was cuban if he wouldnt have spoken spanish haha. And...later I found out that he was my friends lil bro!!! ahhh!!!

Anyway...i dont think my mom is so happy about me liking him...she was like...Black people have no class...blah blah...and I was like...what about my best friend? and she said...She's a one in a million. He comes from a family with money...ahhhh why does everybody I meet in the university have to have money...anyway. And she just didnt wanna hear it.

IDK...I'm going to go as far as the relationship can matter what they tell me...but I mean...what if it goes all the way to the altar...I dont think my dad will give me away.

zanzibarus 38M

7/3/2006 4:44 pm

Problem being is, if it goes all the way to the altar, its hardly your parents decision on who you marry.

If your parents have problems with you dating or marrying a man of different race, then it's something they will just have to get over.

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
7/17/2006 7:48 am

I would not be worrying about the altar just yet, how about the first date instead? You live in the present and that is all you need to focus on, a bridge can only be crossed once it has been arrived at.

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