BlueIceGargoyle 60M
135 posts
7/31/2006 12:48 am

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5/23/2007 3:36 am


Why is it that after all this time you still haunt my dreams, making it difficult to move on. Why is it that I asked someone to go when I really wanted them to stay? Why do I still hurt for this loss, and loose sleep ? Why is it that I still dwell on things which I have counseled others in similar situations to move on. To quote a writer (Hugh Pratner) "We are not responsible for what we feel, but rather for what we do with these feelings", and sadly enough I have acted badly . I am truely sorry for my actions for it has caused myself and others that I care for. Why did I act in such a way ? Why is it that I still have these feelings? But, mostly why do I ask questions that I do not want the answers to?

angelicdelights 105F

8/5/2006 10:23 pm

you know the answers you are just denying yourself to face the facts of why you did what you did or why others did what they did. my point is to sit back and think and accept then as you counseled so many others take a deep breath and move on. otherwise you will just dwell and remain hurting when there is no reason to be.in other words "leave the past in the past the time is now to move forward and as hard as it may seem dont look back until you are fully ready to see and accept the unacceptable at this point and time"

pearlnecklace22 53F
41 posts
8/7/2006 12:40 pm

you need a dream catcher Blue so the bad thoughts caught in the web and the good thoughts flow though it good post

rm_Melciber 61M
214 posts
8/11/2006 1:27 pm

regrets - once noticed - and confronted - can lead us to the place where these truths reside . . . so long as forgivenes for yourself is in your heart.

< - - - NOT a born-again anything . . . just one who has been there . . . and been helped out of the mire.

You know me. . .


Suicidia 50F

8/28/2006 12:40 pm

Sir, hindsight is 20/20 vision, and, to steal a quote, "that which does not kill us, makes us stronger". Each thought, decision and regret makes You the Man You are today, and I, for one, know only too well how life can be shaped by missed opportunities and regretted circumstances. Embrace it, understand it and move on.

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