why do people play games ?  

Bloomers62 54F
59 posts
8/24/2005 5:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

why do people play games ?

The question has been dicussed so many times and ask as well...but I really am curious as to why would anyone play games with someone ? Maybe thinking they are married and it's ok to play with their heads thinking what are they going to do!! true to some aspects what are they going to do .Well as for myself I can just easily take myself out of the situation of the game. Right,because its like this if you want a relationship with someone what ever that may be ,don't play around it gets real old .I'm just really agitated at the moment. this I assumed was an adult site with adults looking for something else something missing in their lives.
Damn I must have been wrong , or maybe I'm not being straight forward I thought I was. I'm looking for friend with benefits ,those benefits include sexual desires. With someone whom I can talk with and feel that they are being straight up with me..I'm married and I know it ,don't plan on changing it .Not here to hurt anyone ,but don't take my feelings any less than a single women's.I am straight up in my description of myself im married 42 and a BBW meaning big beautiful women. I'm not the type that wants just a one time tease. Maybe some will understand what I'm referring too.
The internet is full of people playing head games all the time , but as for myself im honest about me about my situation and what im interested in .I'm just really frustrated right now.
The point of this thought today is ,If you're only hear to play games just put it out there straight up..I'm sure there are people whom enjoy that .I'm not one of them ..just lettign steam off this morning...

nvrsaynvr2000 73M  
45 posts
8/25/2005 6:54 am

Very well put Bloomers . Must say that I feel the same way .

rm_oneismyumber 59M
1 post
8/30/2005 7:27 pm

I understand completely - people who are married and looking like ourselves need not go through scorn and persecution - we just need more than we are given in our marriage - and I see nothing wrong with that and still wanting to keep what we already have - I too am looking for a friend and a lover - someone who can fill the void - so if you are interested - another person like you exists

Bloomers62 54F

9/1/2005 5:39 am

Good morning and thank you nvrsaynr..for reading and as well as understanding ..it's just so damn hard to know who's playing and who's not..and hi there oneismynumber thank you as well .many people don't seem to understand the issue at hand and make more of the situation than there is..When two people honest with each other about their situation and desires ..for some reason meet and get along .why would that offend anyone else .The way I see is if you prefer not to talk or meet with a married person very simple don't.
On the other hand that doesn't give you the right to condemn those who do.I see this way if people are honest and upfront then thats half the battle.The game players need to seek out those who love the game as well not those of us whom prefer the real deal of touch . I for one am not the new cyber sex type ,doesn't do anything for me .Thats me ,and i would never condemn those whom do enjoy it .So give to me the same respect ..

heavenawaits2 58M
2 posts
9/14/2005 3:00 am

I agree with you that life is too short to be playing head games. I think that people like us who are married and honest enough to admit it in our profile can take pride in the fact that we are not ashamed of our needs. We all need a friend with benefits. Sometimes you have to go outside of your relationship to get certain wants or needs fulfilled. We all have the right to be happy in this world.

silence262 53M

9/17/2005 10:16 pm

Bloomers, I have to tell you that I've seen a fair amount of gamesters, and I don't really mind them. If I pursue someone who is clearly not real, when I find it out, I often play along....hell, it's their fantasy, and I don't mind helping with that. The chat rooms are full of game players, and that's why I rely on email.....you can usually tell more about someone when it's one-on-one.
That being said, I'm one who will give an honest assessment of myself: I believe in full disclosure to people in the chatroom, If I wanted to lie to someone, I have a wife! Anybody who asks me will find out my age, wher I am, marital status....not just that I'm married, but whether we're getting along or not, too. I find that people tend to resect me more that way....and if they don't want a married man (happens a lot!) then we were never going to be together anyway. In regard to one of my very best friends online, we will never have sex together because married men are off-limits to her....and I respect her greatly for wanting to be my friend anyway.

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