Sex drive  

Blkpus4whtdk 52F
342 posts
8/1/2005 2:58 pm

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Sex drive

I must confess to an amazing increase in my sex drive lately, which is somewhat odd to me...apparently given my age I am in my peak...I never really believed that but now I am convinced. I think about sex all the time, all a man would...though I haven't acted on these they are too frequent but I am easily aroused and the evident is so visual..what a time to dump that ass hole boyfriend of mine...but like everything else...I'll work it out at the YMCA..the physical activity helps a lot...I'm such a good girl!!!!

noneyabidness 41M
1 post
8/1/2005 5:09 pm

oh my! Sounds like you have some of the same issues I do today. I went to the doctor recently and exclaimed my unbelievable desire for sex. He asked me waht was the problem, consider myself lucky. So I tell you, consider yourself lucky!! Keep the desire going, find ways to make it stronger.

rm_memtnguy2 51M
5 posts
8/2/2005 5:01 am

Yes, I agree, consider yourself lucky and enjoy yourself. Just be safe and sane about it. Enjoy life and live it to the fullest!!!

Blkpus4whtdk 52F

8/2/2005 10:15 am

Well I think that type of desire is definately different for a man than a woman...remember the double standards...for men it is a good thing and he is just being a man when he seeks out multiple sex partners..for woman ..she's being a believe me when I say it is not the best position to be in...generally my circle of friends is small and I am not interested in carrying a label...being intimidate with two person is one thing ...mutiple persons is something entirely different

rm_memtnguy2 51M
5 posts
8/2/2005 12:43 pm

You are correct, there is a double standard, which is not right, but it does exist. Still, I believe you should live life for yourself and enjoy life as much as possible. If your circle of friends is small, keep that part of your life separate from your sex life. The two do not necessarily have to be intertwined. While I am sure that you are very close to your friends, everyone should have a few "secrets". I do understand your position, however.

Of course, that's just my 2 cents, not worth much more than that! lol

TechKitsune 34M

8/2/2005 2:01 pm

*begin scientific bs*
At the age of 35 a woman's sex drive nearly quadruples, until they hit the age of about 42-43, where it begins to drop.
*end scientific bs*

In the meantime, sex isn't all that bad, as long as the proper precautions are taken. As memtnguy2 said, unfortunately there's a double-standard, and I agree with him, it's wrong. Just because a woman chooses to satisfy and fulfill her desires should not mean she should be called a whore. Of course, this *IS* Memphis we're talking about - whore is the third most commonly used term to describe almost any woman, beaten only by "slut" and "ho."

Don't ever let anyone's inappropriate thoughts or language discourage you, if you run into it. Seek to fulfill your desire until you burst!!! - Just don't get too carried awaay!!

sharptongued00 53M
1 post
8/11/2005 5:13 pm

Well if it means anything to you, I'd be more than happy to help work out the sore muscles, or help create some new ones

topcat1235 54M
1 post
8/14/2005 10:55 pm

you sound desperate for a cup of coffee and conversation

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