Sad state of affairs  

Black__Dragon 46M
175 posts
12/23/2005 6:40 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Sad state of affairs

I think I have reached my limit
I mastered the AdultFriendFinder game and its old
Aint trying to chase women with low self esteem
To easy
Wheres the challange
I boosted my esteem and credit you boost yours
Cause its more to life than whats between your legs
Respect yourself before you wreck youself
Its more than than gushy pussy that turns my screws
Always been that
Aint nothing changed
You say your looking for real--you aint ready for real... Real is on your terms weaker than most
So ladies when your ready to play with the big boys pushing big toy. Come correct. Aint got time for the bullshit

Throws the mic in disgust...

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
12/24/2005 5:52 am

I agree with you BD and there is more to men than the sum of their body parts...or at least should be. This is an adult site for people who want to deal honestly with their sexuality...or so I thought...but it is not unlike the bar scene...with the games and the deceit. I guess you have to go through a lot of frogs to find a your case princess...good luck to us both.


Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
12/24/2005 12:18 pm

Sorry to read you were so disappointed and frustrated Black_Dragon. Moonfire sure hit it on the mark - have to meet a lot of people to find one who really compliments us and who we compliment well. I love writing, talking about and the actual act of extended foreplay, lovemaking and yes even fucking! But... there sure is a whole lot more to a relationship than those things. I don't often have experiences leaving me feeling the way you appeared to be feeling, but it does happen and it's just such a let down. There's a lot more to a person's character than the act of sex and my experience with people who place all of their self value in what is between their legs is we don't compliment each other in a relationship. That's sure the pits when you think to yourself - wow this person appears to have all the qualities I'm searching for and then you find out that's not at all the case. Disappointing. I'm sorry you were disappointed - I'm sorry for both of you - that's not fun. You're a good, decent, well-rounded man and will attract a woman who has the qualities you're searching for. It will happen!!!

On a very different note, I want you to know that I started a blog on this site and it's because of you. Some time ago you encouraged me to write more and seek out feedback and that's just what I've done and it's fun. Also, I'm making some nice friends in the process. Thank you for being supportive and for your suggestion. Sometimes I feel like a dork when I respond to the comments people leave, but I'm getting more comfortable with that and like I said, I'm making friends and I'm enjoying writing more. It's a good experience.

Take care and enjoy a lovely Christmas tomorrow. Whisper...

Black__Dragon 46M

12/30/2005 7:49 am

Moon thanks for the words of encouragement. Whisper Im so happy you decided to express youself. You have a lot to offer blogland and your sensuality is much desired. I feel priviliaged and humble to have encouraged you. I look forward to reading you blogs. Take Care.

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