Is There Such A Thing On AFF?  

Black_N_Hard9 36M
8 posts
7/17/2005 1:39 pm

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7/26/2006 6:29 pm

Is There Such A Thing On AFF?

To be perfectly honest. I believe that there are men and women who would love to find that "one" person to be with for as long as possible. What do you people think? Get at me with the answer and see if we can help each other find that "one" okay?

keithcancook 60M
17839 posts
7/17/2005 7:57 pm

Absolutely such folks are on this site. Good luck with your searches.

rm_mieze626 52F
145 posts
7/18/2005 10:26 am

i agree with keith....

Black_N_Hard9 36M

7/18/2005 10:53 am

But how do we get these folks to the forefront. Because it seems like there is too many folks trying to get laid on the first night and that's all they want. I know that this is a swingers site, but that shouldn't be all that people seek.

likesmymenwhite 32F

10/21/2005 9:45 pm


Black_N_Hard9 36M

10/29/2005 10:47 am

I'm sure that Passion says it is for romance, but we as people have a different definition of "romance." Romance to me is taking that special someone to dinner, wine and dine him/her. Bring her flowers, say the things that are sweet, but true in her/him ear. Dance with her/him. Hold their hands, and make them feel as you would like to be felt. Then when the night is done. Walk them home, and kiss them goodnight, and nothing else. That in my opinion is the ultimate "romance." No sex, no anything. Just the enticipation of seeing one another again.

SexyHotChocolate 38F

2/11/2006 10:08 pm

yes i think that there is such a thing that you can find someone on this site and be with for as long as you please if and only if that person is willing to do whatever it takes and if and only if the two of you really have an understanding. because i believe that you can achieve anything in a relationship if they have understanding and faith. its time out for playing games and trying to have more than one mate at a time; that is pure nasty. so if you are looking for that special someone who is loving and understanding just holla at me!!

msmoca_angel32 51F

6/25/2006 1:13 pm

Well, the way i look at it, you are absolutely correct. There are entirely too many people that are on this site searching for their soul mate...seeking it the wrong way. How can one determine who is or can be their soul mate if they are out there for just one night hookups and not really getting to know the person. Its just unbelievable! True enuff it is a swingers site.. But dayuum...You dont have to swing on every tree limb that makes itself available. BNH I admire you as a young black man. You remain focused and positive in all aspects of the way u think. As long as you continue to remain focused and keep keeping an eye on the way the majority of the people roll on this site. I can bet my last dollar on "You wont be making the wrong choices" hahhaa... And YES there are some true, genuine people on this site... They are somewhat like yourself..sitting in the cut, commenting on the one night stand setups that they see.. lol... BE PATIENT she is out there...

Jcandi 39F

7/26/2006 4:28 pm

In my opinion...Everybody wants to be in love eventually, thats how we are made, some have thier issues or can't cope with the hurt they have already had, so people act out. It dosn't matter how many miles you are close or far from a person, if you click then you click and you make an effort. It takes teo to be willing to make the effort and see if it is all worth it, eventually you might end up together in the same place. As with paitience there has to be TRUST from the start.

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