Well, I hope it made you feel better asshole!  

BigBeautyBeotch 49F
15 posts
7/1/2006 6:14 pm

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7/2/2006 6:44 pm

Well, I hope it made you feel better asshole!

Did you ever see someone make fun of another person? Of course you have, everyone has at one time or another. Whether it was that shorter kid in grade school who you called Shorty or some bookish "geek" who was a little weird in high school. Odds are you made fun of someone like that at least once in your life. I have. I did it in high school. Can't say that I'm proud of it but I'll cop to it. I used to get teased because I have red hair. "I'd rather be dead than red." If I only had a buck for each time this was said to me....damn nice house I'd be owning right about now. We all got teased as kids. It's part of growning up. Most of us grow out of it though. Most of us.

So now, I'll bring you to the present day. My washer is busted. I didn't realize this until the clothes had already gone through. Damn it! I hate when that happens. My building's washer and/or dryer are always breaking down. So I grumble and bitch about having to go to the local laundry mat to re-wash my clothes. Meh, whatever.

My son and I go down to the laundry mat. It's not in the nicest of neighborhoods but it's not like I'm going to get shot or anything. I put my laundry in the washer and fart around at the other stores in the strip mall until it's done. When we are done with that we still had to wait for it to get done. Well, I don't know about you guys but it's hot as balls here today. I hate the heat. "Let's just sit in the car and listen to the radio for a few." I tell my kid. Couple minutes later, we get out to go into the laundry mat to get my stuff when this truck goes by my car. "MMMOOOOOOO!!!!!MOOOOOOO!!!!" Three grown men in this truck laughing and mooing at me. As I turn around I see one of them spin around in the back seat laughing at me. I just flicked him the bird and continued on my way. My son was right there with me. I wasn't doing anything more than walking from the curb into the laundry mat minding my own business with my son in tow. I play it off like, "Whatever" while I give them the one finger salute but I'm embarrassed that my son had to witness that not to mention the other half dozen people in the parking lot or walking by at the time. Yeah, I know I didn't do anything wrong, I didn't provoke this from the "men" (and I use that term loosely) but I was embarrassed.

My son and I got in the car and went home. He didn't say anything and neither did I. When we got inside the house, I told him that if I ever heard him do that to another human being EVER, I'd whip his ass into next week. I hope he remembers this and remembers it well. It's not one of my more shinning moments but I want him to remember how bad some asshole on the street made his Mom feel...even if it was just a moment.

So assholes in the truck at the strip mall, I hope it made you feel better to go out of your way to be mean and cruel to a perfect stranger in the street. I hope it made you feel like a man to belittle a Mom walking with her young son minding her own business and not bothering anyone. I hope you and your little friends got a good laugh at my expense. I hope you got out of it what you wished you got out of it. Was it good for you? I'll never understand people like this. What possesses you to call out such vial immature shit? What do you hope to accomplish from this? Does the fact that I'm fat interfere with your life? Do you think you are letting me in on this "secret" that everyone notices but me? Do you think I don't know that I'm overweight? I would just love to know why people feel the need to do stupid fuckin' shit like this.

Oh and btw assholes, if you feel the need to go out of your way to say these things, stop the car and give a gal a chance to ask these questions. Man up and say it to someone's face and don't run away as you say it. I may be fat but you are nothing more than a pussy.

florallei 99F

7/1/2006 7:16 pm


I don't understand why people can be so rude and ignorant with others. Growing up, manners were taught and I suppose rudeness is also a learned behaviour. We have to make sure as parents to teach our little ones what is proper and kind.
I am sorry that these assholes were downright immature and stupid. Just always remember that you are sacred and that you are special!

rm_KarmoHunny 55F
888 posts
7/1/2006 7:58 pm

I'm sorry you went through that kind of stupid-ass behavior. I'm a big girl too and know how you feel. People who are overweight are made to feel like we aren't good enough. Like we're something to make fun of. Something to avoid like the plague. Well, for you stupid sons-of-bitches, it's no picnic being overweight. We didn't wake up one day and say, "Hey, I think I'll be fat." And it's not as simple as doing diet and exercise either to lose weight. Think about some fault that you have and how easy it would be for you to change it. I guarantee it won't be easy. And for you people who think you don't have faults, you can stop lying to yourself. Because you do. They just may not be visible like being overweight.

Hang in there, Hun! I know it's hurtful.


BigBeautyBeotch 49F

7/2/2006 6:44 pm

Thanks guys! I do appreciate the kind words. It's a shame that being nasty to fat people is acceptable to a lot of people. I'm a good looking bitch but I'm overweight. It sucks and I don't want to be this way. I've tried every diet known to man. I'm seriously considering gastric bypass. Part because I worry about my health but part because of cosmetic reasons. It's a skinny persons world out there. In some countries, overweight people are looked upon with high status and wealth. They are wealthy enough to have enough food to be plump. I need to find me one of them dudes!!!

SirMounts 102M

7/3/2006 2:13 pm

A warm welcome to blogging, BigBeautyBeotch. *smiling*

airbalancer69 49M/52F

8/14/2006 1:24 pm

Hello BBB,
Well that is a damn shame that there are men out there that make men look like pigs what a pack of assholes. You remember one thing it is what is inside not out and there are a bunch of us MEN that just live and breathe you big girls. Stop by our blog and check us out we have some good read there and maybe a situation you may be interested in leave us a message there and we will talk. Oh yeah and here is a good line to spit back at them...." Imay be fat but you are ugly and by god i can loose weight"...that tends to stub there tounge so to speak...*L*...assholes...well sorry on behalf of the good male population that you had to be subjected to such imature and childish bullshit. All the best to you and hope to hear from you.

beachlovinbbw 41F
70 posts
9/5/2006 6:44 pm

So sorry you had to go through that....I've had that happen to me as well. I agree with the others comments. Men and women alike can be very insensitive and will never say the cruel remarks to your face. I honestly think that's because they're afraid we'd knock them on their asses lol

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