Of Breasts, Nipple Rings, and a Few Lovers  

BiLadyRedhead 46F
8 posts
8/11/2006 11:56 pm

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Of Breasts, Nipple Rings, and a Few Lovers

At 1:30 in the morning, I'm not quite sure what to write, and am far from certain that I'll be ledgable let alone understandable.

Yes, I have large breasts, though not as large as some, and not as perfect as others. I'm not quite sure why it is that breasts are so prevalent in our culture, there's been a huge stink about women breastfeeding in public, so I'm left to wonder how much sexuality is tied to this view. Perhaps it is because they are tied to nurturing, and sex at the same time. Soft and round, they can be kneaded, squeezed, fondled, caressed, licked and kissed. They are naturally built for suckling but infant or adult, and the sensations such affection bring about can make one go all wet and gushy. They are visual things, always out there, and can't be missed.

I have to admit, I like women's breasts, though not of any particular size. Attractive breasts are ones that are inviting, warm, and tend to show the personality of their owners in the best way. It's taken me years (and amateur porn) to realize that not all women's breasts look the same, nor should they. By the by, my picture was taken by a good friend who knew how to put my breasts in the best light, so you don't exactly see the rest of they body that I'm rather ashamed of, or at least not enamoured with. Then again, my friend didn't complain at all... there were certain enjoyable things that occurred after this photo that I will leave to later, if ever I mention them, but he quite enjoyed it.

My poor breasts, though. I've had no children as of yet, so they've never been put to the nurturing/child-rearing purpose they are supposed to have in part. I've pierced my nipples twice over the past two years, and both times ended up taking the rings out to let them heal up on their own. The first time just never seemed to heal properly, and the second time my nipples decided to let the holes move, as if they were trying to reject and eject the rings. I have to admit, I didn't get them entirely for my own pleasure. The first time it was to both show that I could withstand pain (a reflection of my life), and to arouse interest in both my husband and my lover. I have to admit, shortly after I got them, and my lover put them to use I almost orgasmed by breast stimulation alone, which would have been a first. My friends liked them, but I don't recall what my husband (now my ex) thought at the time, I think he was too busy having sex with multiple other women, and as he had told me close to the time we were seperated, he just didn't find me sexually enticing any more (I had gained weight...little wonder with a man in the house who at 6'5 and 350 tended to eat mixing bowls of cereal with a half gallon of milk each day, and him with diabeties). The second time I did it was last year in hopes of bringing new stimulation, as well as trying to act more youthful; I'd just returned from a month long study at a college in Ireland, and survived being with 18-22 kids who acted just like that, kids.

I've been fortunate, though. I've found a good, if a bit odd man whom I'm engaged to be married to. A virgin until I met him, he still needs more training, but half the fun is playing. I just wish he'd move the spare television out of his workroom and into our bedroom. His mother lives with us, and as that she's retired, it's not as if we can watch porn in the livingroom...something about her rarely if ever leaving the house.

Oh, yes, he knows I'm up on AdultFriendFinder, and sees no harm in it. I am not, after all, looking to replace him by far, but making contact with folks to talk about sex, writing, and other things of the sort.

So that is thus, and I need to head to bed. I have to be up in 3 and a half hours for work.

rm_rubie80 36F
245 posts
8/12/2006 1:17 am

um, breasts! mine are tiny! i have had 2 kids and they seem to have shrank! any way on the bright side, they might be small but they are very pert and they wont be round my ankles when i get older!

166 posts
8/12/2006 1:40 am

I must say that you have a very nice pair,,,Also lookin forward to reading more..Have a nice Day ,,and welcome to blogs...

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8/12/2006 4:00 am

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angelofmercy5 58F
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8/12/2006 6:52 am

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