sex vs. love  

BiFlookin4BiF69 47F
8 posts
5/30/2006 10:54 pm

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sex vs. love

i was in deep thought today about the difference of pure sex and making love.
though both are fun on their own, when combined can make all parties involved have more intense orgasms.
the raw nature of sex in its most passionate and wild state makes me desire it more than plain vanilla sex.
the freedom in knowing that there is no connections other than random encounters to enjoy such a rush again.
my heart is my own, but my sexual nature is too please and be pleased til i can't anymore.
sex for sex's sake is fun, keeping each other informed on playing outside the lines is a must.
finding such a person was easy, keeping their attention is a constant challenge.
what is the next level of intensity? can i top my last attempt to please ( and i did please)
but its been so long that i may have to start at square one again (that might not be so bad)cum to think of it.
so i will say that the difference is knowing which turns you on and the latter being with a person who shares the same deep emotions, cause you either enjoy sex or you enjoy making love...the lucky few that can enjoy both, well means there is hope for the lot of us...lol
sex is served, what's your pleasure?



Satyr48 67M
1773 posts
5/30/2006 11:42 pm

That's one of the things I love about my wife - she can do both soooooooooo well.
When we "make love", she satisfies me all the way to the depths of my soul.
But, when she's in the mood for just raw sex and a thundering orgasm, she makes every cell in my body explode like struck by lightening.

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...


learner1981 35M
1 post
5/31/2006 12:45 am

it seems like this old debate has not lost its charm; it is enigmatic.well, i am realitively inexperience in both;sex and love.i am often confounded by both. there was this one time, when i felt head over heels in love with a friend of mind. or at least i thought it was love. it was in a field camp. when i confessed my feelings to her, she said it was perhaps infatuation, short lived. for one thing i have not been able to differentiate between love, true love, infatuation,lust...whatever it was,what i felt was so strong and intense!i would often lay watching her, playing with her hair, tracing the profile of her face late into the night. however i never got to sleep with her as the boys and girls were segregated. nevertheless i would sneek in just to be with her! though she never stopped me or avoided me, she would never say that she loved me. one of my friend told me that she was already going around with somebody. she would never talk about the other guy to me. i thought, if she considered me just as a friend, she would. i was danm confused. i was not sure if she loved me, lust me of just liked my company. then on the last day, i got a chance to sleep with her. we were huddled together under a blanket. there was softness in her eyes, but how the hell would know what it was. what if i were wrong from the begining. i could not decide. oh god, her lips were so soft. i thought i would die if i didnt kiss those. but you know what, i didnt kiss her that night. somehow i couldnt. it is not that i didnt want to. somehow i felt something deep inside; she didnt love me. help me understand me.


24funandsun 43M/41F
1 post
6/2/2006 4:16 am


You give me hope!
Sex vs. Love Such a hard thing for most to figure out.In most cases I have found that men and women alike equate sex aslove and vise versa. More so when they find a partner that knows their body, what they want, and how to get, and or give. Now to be more direct. You are a breath of fresh air and I would love to talk more with you. I am also a bi female looking for like minded women to talk and play with. In hopes of finding someone who to help me make my man float on the clouds for days! If you are interested you can find more info on us @24funandsun.


firmbutt06 105M

7/9/2006 10:13 am

sex is better with love, but until the love comes along once again I'll enjoy the sex for sex part. And the love will hopefully enjoy the sex for sex as well.


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