here we go...  

BestKisserEver 44M
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7/14/2005 9:21 pm

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here we go...

Well, this is my first blog. Not sure what to say. I've found myself getting more and more depressed over the lack of replies I'm getting on this service, and on another one I'm using. Do the women out there understand how disheartening it is for nice guys, like me, to reach out via an email, and be ignored? Imagine if you went to a bar, and walked up to a strange man that seemed nice. You introduce yourself, stick out your hand to shake, and then the guy looks at you, and then turns away without even acknowledging your presence? How would that make you feel? About two-feet tall. Well, that's the way a lot of guys on this service feel. YES, I know there is a 1:10 ratio of girls:guys. But it only takes 30 damn seconds to reply with, "Heya. Thanks for the email. Sorry, but I'm not interested." Or maybe, "Sorry, I don't date people over 30." Or maybe, "While I enjoyed your email, I was turned off by your bad grammar, and penis picture." Whatever. It doesn't matter. The point is, we are friggin' human beings that are only trying to make contact. Is that so wrong? Is it too much to expect a single email reply that indicates disinterest, rather than stony silence?

That's my rant. Thank you.

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