Testimonials: Good or Bad?  

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F
1008 posts
8/29/2005 2:34 pm

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Testimonials: Good or Bad?

If you see a testimonial on a guy's profile does it help or hinder his chances of getting to know you? Meaning, do you think he's a man-slut (well I prefer Cabana Boy), or more validated?

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
8/29/2005 4:53 pm

I prefer testimonials but few guys have them pertaining to an in person meet


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/29/2005 9:33 pm

Hey Short, I prefer the term "bitch boy" or "cabana boy" to male slut, if it's all the same to you. "Boy toy" works too.

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/29/2005 9:33 pm

mz, thanks for droppin by. Since I went over a hundred I decided to not show them any more.. NOT! LOL

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/29/2005 9:35 pm

wyvemrose, I always wondered why people did testimonials for people whom they've never met. Makes no sense to me. "You are so sexy hope to meet you sometime." That's no testimonial, that's a wish!

Barbiebunny69 43F

8/30/2005 12:17 am

Yeah i think its an insight to a person if theyre done well.
Cabana boy..do u know how the proper temperature for frozen grapes to feed divas?

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/30/2005 4:01 am

Sure Short, I'll take that testimonial. As they say in Hollywood, any publicity is good publicity. I can see that testimonial now:

"I had a chance to IM with this cabana bitch boy toy and I can say, wow, cool network pictures! And he is so full of crap in his blogs. To all you women in Colorado: do him now! And if you're not in Colorado, fly out, you won't be dissapointed! Bring your bi friends! You will never exeperience a greater man slut!" Sound good?

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/30/2005 8:18 am

Barbie, the Cabana Boy Manual (rev. 2005) states:

"Grapes to divas shall not be served in a frozen state. Rather, they must be prepared using one of the following methods:

1) The double-breasted warming technique, or
2) The vaginal top-resting slow thaw procedure.

Either is acceptable, and both can be employed interchangeably, regardless of the number of grapes being fed to said diva. Post thawing consummation processes can be found in Chapter 13.

Hope this helps. Please feel free to pass on to your cabana boy(s) with my regards.


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
8/30/2005 4:42 pm


Testimonials do tend to dehumanize the adult dating scenario.

On one hand, I empathize with ladies attempting to shield themselves from predators, etc.


I have a certain level of self-confidence [trust in my own judgement as well as my ability to truly listen to sound advice], often in contrast to conflicting viewpoints.

Let’s say that I meet a lady here that likes/doesn’t like something about me, and she feels the need to broadcast her feelings. Depending upon the circumstances, and the testimonial itself, it could reflect more upon her than me. Of course, I disregard all testimonials that are merely lies or other false-manipulations.

On the other hand, if I need someone else’s opinion of a lady to guide my actions toward her, does it not bear testimony to my difficulty making and/or following my own path in life, i.e. demonstrates my need for peer approval to guide my actions? Or worse still, that I am not looking for a mate and a lover, but am merely flaunting my ego?

Perhaps you and talldarkavg1 should start the “AdulftFriendFinder” compatibility clinic in Southern California, wherein members receive their bona fides–whatever they may be.


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